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What are your plans when you are done with your healing process?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by seaguy44, Sep 11, 2017.

  1. Sep 11, 2017 #1
    seaguy44

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    Hey everyone,

    Disclaimer: I am aware that addiction is with us for life so I'm referring to when the healing process has been completed to the point where we can truly recover from the destructive addiction and can really live our lives to the fullest.

    So, everyone, what are your plans when you are done with the healing process. It doesn't mean we can go back to whatever we were doing before. It's more living the life that we SHOULD be doing.

    I would like to start dating women once the healing process is done. That's my goal. There's no way for me to date women and focus on this addiction. It's not fair to me and not fair to her.

    Will I still log on to this website? yes, to be sure that I have resources I need so I won't relapse and support other men that struggle as other men are helping me out now. But probably less than now.

    I talked to my friend today that I have no concept of what it's like NOT to be addicted to PMO. It's a foreign concept as I am sure it is for many of you. So I would have to really re-evaluate dating, sex and life completely. My friend who has healed his PMO addiction said that he's not the same man now. He had to evaluate his life completely and changed the way he date women, how he lives his life, etc.

    Women: I'm thinking of taking Dating Skills class. I have had girlfriends before but I want to be sure that I'm doing right this time so I can find the right woman and marry her.

    Sex: Sex is awesome. Of course. I really don't want to get addicted to sex again after the healing process is done, so I think I'll wait sex for a long time till I am in a stable relationship with a girl.

    Life: Going out to meet more people, enjoying life as one should be. now my priority right now is this addiction (healing process). I cannot afford any temptations right now otherwise I'll relapse.

    So, I'm curious about what are your plans? Stay strong, Brothers!
     
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  2. Sep 11, 2017 #2
    littlebear

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    Hey dude, I'm on the same path as you but I've been dating a lot of quality women but get to the bedroom and can't get an erection hence quitting PMO but long story short, If you want to up your dating game I highly recommend a guy called Corey Wayne on YouTube. He's help me get a date at least once a Month in comparison to dating once a year but he has a book (Defs worth your money and time!) and his YouTube videos are just top up information. Check him out, you won't regret and good luck on your journey! :)
     
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  3. Sep 11, 2017 #3
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    Me too. Won't be dating until I'm rebooted. I'll probably come back to help other people but I expect not to be around as much. I hope in the future I have more things going on with my life.
     
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  4. Sep 11, 2017 #4
    sadhu

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    Great question bud. My plan is to masturbate once every 15 days and if I get a partner to have sex every 15 days. I don't know why I've selected that number but I feel better now that I'm not losing Zinc in semen. There are studies which say people masturbating less have faced some sort of cancer although that ain't the only variable. I'm mainly doing this for hair loss. I'm 21, balding and hope to get some of my hair back! When I started on NoFap, it was just for not losing protein via sperm release but the mental aspect is so important, about getting rid of those neuron formations in brain for porn rewards.
     
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