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Chastity lock (Trigger Warning)

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by MarinoBigFan1984, Sep 23, 2017.

  1. MarinoBigFan1984

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    I have found chastity and or cock locks really help prevent emergency relapses
     
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  3. EddyFriend

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    Hahahahahahahahah
     
  4. MarinoBigFan1984

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  5. I agree with you. So does my wife. Despite that many people here say it's kinky or part of the sissy life, we disagree. For us, there is NONE of the fantasy world everyone belives (due to too much porn watching?) in me being in chastity.. We just see it as an aid to healing, the same way a broken arm is put in Plaster of Paris. If sheer willpower doesn't work for me and other strategies seem "weak" to me, and failed so often in years of trying to stop, then desperate times call for desperate measures.

    So, @MarinoBigFan1984 good for you!
     
  6. Nomenyeux

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    Does this keep you from getting an erection? I wonder if it can help you keep from getting wet deams.
     
  7. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    You can get hard but the lock puts pressure on the erection till it goes away. My little guy fights the lock like a champ but eventually the lock wears him out. You should not sleep in it.
     
  8. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Do you wear yours all the time?
     
  9. Hi @MarinoBigFan1984,

    Yes I do. It has been on permanently 24/7 for the last five months. I have a few different types to enable proper cleaning. The key is kept in my wife's cupboard, and she carries it if we go out in case of emergencies. As stated earlier, there is zero kink here, but the benefits are amazing, especially in our relationship. My wife was VERY sceptical at first, but once I told her the truth about my PMO addiction and the years of trying to stop, combined with how the device helped/changed my attitude and behaviour, she became 100% supportive. It took some time to be able to wear it all the time, but I am glad I endured, and now it is no problem at all.

    There are a few posts here that are very anti chastity devices, but I don't care what anyone thinks. The only opinions of me that matter are: God, my wife and mine! My wife and I are closer than ever, and I believe God is pleased with the effort and results
     
  10. nofepper

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    THis is very good from her. Your counter says you don't have sex (orgasm to be more precise), it's because PIED or?

    For me this (chastity lock) is a little bit extreme, but if it help to you it's OK.
     
  11. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    I view wearing it as a way of penance too
     
  12. MarinoBigFan1984

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    I only wear one that covers my shaft right now and I don’t wear it all the time though I am considering it but I’d need one designed for daily use
     
  13. Does that presuppose you are living in guilt?
     
  14. MarinoBigFan1984

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    I have found it easier to break bad habits or change bad behavior when I include a little discomfort into this process. It’s serves as reinforcement.
     
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  15. MarinoBigFan1984

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    I’m not a sadist but I went to catholic school growing up and I do think a little bit of consequence for bad behavior is a good thing. Watching the porn bothers me the worst.
     
  16. MarinoBigFan1984

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    I would give myself a much bigger penance for porn for MO which is a physical release.
     

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