Loneliness

Why are you afraid? Are you not a smart, sharp, funny young man.

The fear is in failure & rejection within your desires, not in talking with girls.

STOP fapping! and you will see all this will change quickly

 

Only if you wanna be her friend

If you wanna bang (admit it OP) then you gotta work on your looks

Currently popping 30000 IU of Beta Carotene to get a natural tan, gotta go for that Mediterranean look

 

Look is just a little effect, that goes down later - because if the woman knows you the good look doesn't work anymore, most of all if you fail on her. A look doesn't explain the complete person, but gives the opposite the first impression of you. Important is that you have a look, that you like and makes you comfortable. I feel myself bad, if I have for example a hair cut or noble clothes I don't like even other people would like it.

More important is the character, the charisma you have and having fun on a conversation. Don't think on a relationship or sex because the people can smell it. And if there is tension in the air, so that she felt attracted to you, you won.

 

Cope my friend, a good looking guy doesn't need to focus on charisma, he can say whatever he wants and the girl will plod along.

Lmao @ this outdated PUA thinking, it's not 2005 anymore.

Focus on your looks and you might scramble something assuming you weren't genetically fucked

 

Money and power trump looks every single time. Looks matter to a certain degree, but they fade over time. Money and people skills grow the older you get. If you really want to stop being lonely, become financially independent and learn how to influence others (provided you are young enough). Let's say you have two men of the same age. Man A is very good looking but he drives a beat-up Honda Civic, gets all of his clothes from Goodwill, and has a complete lack of social skills. Man B is unattractive but he drives a Lamborghini, wears Versace clothing, and is the CEO of a valuable company. Women are almost guaranteed to flock to man B. For example, multi-millionaire radio host Howard Stern was never good looking, but his wife is a former model. I'm not saying you need to be rich or super popular to get a girl, but money and influence does help quite a bit.

 

If by women you mean ones that are in their 30s or gold diggers, then yeah, but why would you want that? The attractive guy is gonna be going through the 18-20s year old girls on Tinder and care not for some former model.

The fact that you have to mention a multi-millonaire to get your point across is kinda funny... as if anyone can just start a company that lands in the Fortune 500 at a young age (or any age for that matter).

 

The reasons money and power typically trump looks is that women value many qualities besides physical attractiveness.

A man may be unattractive, but if he's wildly successful, that tends to show ambition, drive, and confidence--three qualities that many women love. It also shows the woman a sense of security--in an age where couples fight more about money than just about anything else, wealth suggests that money issues wouldn't be a problem (which may or may not be true, but it does give that impression).

A woman doesn't have to be a 'gold digger' in order to be attracted to a man who has the qualities that tend to make men wealthy.

A girl who's worth keeping around won't plod along. The only ones who will stick around are the superficial ones who make looks their #1 priority. If that's the type you're into, then knock yourself out.

 

You nailed it. Women are attracted to successful men because of the positive qualities they possess that made them successes. This is not to say that looks don't matter or you need to be a multi-millionaire to attract women. As I've said in a previous post, looks do matter to a certain extent, but they depreciate over time. Money and power appreciate as you get older (usually).

However, I'm not reading books about money and success to attract women. I read them so I can do everything I want in life. I figure that success with women will be a bi-product of my overall success in life.