Anal Masturbation

i miss anal orgasm, i love it

 

On the internet, you will find people that think anything is normal. That does not make it normal, much less healthy or good.
As you increase your time off PMO, you will feel less urges for AM. You will also become capable of functioning fully with your partner.

 

go without PMO full reboot, it can help a lot

 

I just want to tell you that I struggle with similar issues, and had just started to experiment with AM before I decided to reboot. I don't think there is any difference between anal masturbation or regular masturbation. You have to stop orgasming to give your brain time to reboot. There is nothing inherently wrong with deriving pleasure from any part of your body, but the patterns which have been set are denying us the real pleasure which comes from connecting with other human beings. Work anal toys back in to your sex life once you get a grip on masturbation and a partner to play with.

 

More than stopping the orgasms, is stopping the self pleasuring. As long as you take care of yourself and rely on P for excitement, you are headed down a dead end. You have effectively removed yourself from the human gene pool, have isolated yourself, and are on your way to becoming an unproductive leech.
Give up the PMO, get socially active, and enjoy real life with real people.

 

Anal stimulation is not overly extreme- even for straight men (though most are to embarrassed to admit it) the male g- spot is located inside the ass- so it's not unusual for it to be arousing if the ass is stimulated.

Porn use is damaging obviously and quitting that should be encouraged - however if you manage to quit PMO for over 90 days or longer but find that anal stimulation still arouses you- then there is nothing wrong with that at all.

 

I agree that P addiction really needs to be stopped. I do not give M a clean green light recommendation. I think M has some problems. I am not saying that AM is all bad, though it does have some particular dangers. In general, AM has the same problems as any form of M. If you rely on it for your pleasure, you do not feel the drive to form real relationships. You are not going to get a partner and have a family through relying on prone M, manual M, AM, or any other form of M. You will work harder to get a partner when you see that as your best and only option to O. If you M whenever you want, you will most likely be satisfied with pleasuring yourself.

 

Congrats on day 14. Stay strong ... You can do this!

 

This. It can be a perfectly normal part of a happy healthy sex life. At the moment (for you) it's a part of a wider porn addiction that you need to break.
First, break the PMO addiction of which this is a part.