Im going to kill myself

Hey. Do you have a skype? Or facebook? I'd like to im you so we can talk. I've been through and still go through exactly what you go through besides the marriage/kids part. Taking your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, I'm going to private message you my skype and facebook addresses.

 

Brkbyk, I promise you that there is a way out but you have to give yourself time. Taking your life leaves you with no chance, but by working on yourself both alone and with help, I guarantee you will eventually figure out what you need to do in order to win. I believe in the possibility that those of us with the most challenging journeys are meant for the most satisfying rewards. I have learned so much about my journey about relationships, success, being a man, loving my friends and family, communicating effectively, and taking care of and bettering myself. If I would have given up years ago, which I almost did a few times, I would not have had a chance to be the man I am today. But I am in great shape, have a promising business, am complimented by women constantly, and am happy! I am here to overcome some challenges too my friend... We all are. Your life has way more value than you can possibly understand right now. Give it time and you'll slowly start to see how bright your future is. Believe me when I say you can start tomorrow and take it a day at a time. Don't expect success right now but plan to work toward it and you will surely see the way!

 

Hi Brkbyk

As gleohill said, taking one's own life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Your problem is common on this site, however it can be remedied by abstaining from porn and masturbation. There is hope. This journey is NOT easy, but it is SO worth it. This may be the most testing part of your life.

Take a step back. Give it time. Commit to your goals. And it's almost guaranteed you will see amazing results. You have so much to live for my friend, why deny yourself the right to live it?

Many of us here are aware of depression and social anxiety in one form or another, and this may sound cliched, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel. And living in that light is amazing. There is a way out. Get tools. Get educated. Get on with it and become the amazing person you are capable of being!

All the best
NoBrainer

PS There are other ways to satisfy a woman. Living the purest expression of yourself is A LOT more attractive than an erection. Trust me.

 

Take a moment, take a few long breaths, and let's start to work through some of this stuff.

The ED? That's temporary, that's fixable. It's got a bunch of possible causes and it's in no means a deal-breaker. You can get past that. Temporary issue. Recognize it for what it is. If you want to flip the cards, it might make it easier to avoid masturbation while you wrestle this problem into submission.

Because that's what this is. A fight for submission - to see who or what taps first. Don't tap. Don't ever tap. Show it who the hell is boss - that would be "you". If there's one thing I learned in the Army, it's that. Master it; don't let it master you.

Relationship, wife, women, kids: worry about those issues later. Gotta work on fixing what's all warped out of place - all of that baggage, all of that garbage floating around. That stuff will come in time, and there's MUCH more to pleasing a woman than just being able to get an erection - trust me on that one.

Yeah, you're right. FUCK PORN. Porn is a really fucked avenue that is used to destroy men. And it's being used to destroy you right now. There's this little punk-ass cretin in your head right now, pushing you to end it - to hand him over the victory. That little creep has been making little tactical moves to ruin and wreck your life so that he can snuff you out, end you forever, and then move on to the next guy. All that little bastard knows how to do is lie. Fight the lies. Figure out what they are, the ones that are dragging you down, and put them in the dirt. Make them tap.

Plenty of people here to talk to. If you have to stay up and dump on someone, do it. And make sure you find some people to talk with. Keep your head up and keep us updated - and don't let that little bastard in your head lie to you. Fuck him.

Be prayin' for you, man. Looks dark, but it looks darkest before the dawn.

 

Brkbyk, killing yourself isn't the solution your looking for. Satisfying women isn't all there is to life! I understand your at a low point right now, but I think you need to try and clear your head. Understand that if you stay persistent, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Talk to someone. Seek Professional help. BUT DON'T GIVE UP!! Will keep you in my prayers

 

Dude... If live was all about sex I wouldn't blame you! But I see a world that is purposeful, (I.e. The seeds in apples and a bunch of other stuff) and therefore there must be a purpose for the whole of the universe. I can give reasons for believing in God, and maybe I will in another reason, but sex is not the purpose of life! Don't base your life around sex... There is so much more than that

 

Keep strong my friend, it's not your fault the stupid urges are literally everywhere all you can do is fight. You can win and will win if you don't give up. See that 20 hour mark that is you fighting like a badass so keep going and don't let websites control YOUR sexuality and life. Killing yourself is giving up in one of the worst possible ways. Get up be strong, keep going! Sex isn't everything, life isn't just about reproducing.

 

Hey man, i just read this now but I dont want you to forget that you are not alone. There are men with the same situation as you! Its ok my friend, theres so much more to life than sex, orgasms etc. Our society todsy just pushes sex so much that it leads to a plethora of issues in both men and woman. Its not your fault man, its hard i know but you dont have to live your whole life like this. The fact that you are trying and that you have this site means theres a light at the end of the tunnel. Remember that the best way is not usually the easiest way or else everyone would have no problems. Keep coming on here and get as much support as you can, and in time you'll get those erections back! Hell i bet theres gonna be days when you'll get those unplanned inconvenient ones or the ones in the morning that almost dont go.away. except your gonna be proud as hell! Keep on keeping on my friend. You are NOT alone. You totally got this!!!
-stronger

 

I'm glad to hear you're still with us Brkbyk Keep strong!

 

been an addict for almost ten years and now i have done 11 days, it just takes a month of complete focus and healthy eating and exercise to get the old boy back up, you can do this, but its up to only you

 

http://www.youmatter.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

 

"True warrior" never leaves a fight! Keep going! We all have problems we have to overcome.