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Wet Dreams

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Lars_1998, Nov 2, 2017.

  1. Lars_1998

    Lars_1998 Fapstronaut

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    hi,NoFappers,
    anybody Wet Dreams ? after how many Days ?
     
  2. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    Yes it is inevitable, and it all depends, I had a wet dream after a week and then the second one was after a month.
     
  3. Lars_1998

    Lars_1998 Fapstronaut

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    i hope that will be soon.... :-/
    why,i need it so much ? :-/
     
  4. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    I must admit it feels great especially, because the dream seems real. The real trouble is the morning after when you get the chaser, but if you push through it, you get back on track.
     
  5. Lars_1998

    Lars_1998 Fapstronaut

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    Wanna feel it... now i'm clear since 1Week .... every morning i geel something like ants walking on my stomache and legs.....
     
  6. That's not entirely true, it's actually not inevitable.

    Your body recycles semen on a regular basis. Semen doesn't have to be expelled via ejaculation. You have no more need to ejaculate after a 5000 day streak than after a 5 day one.

    What causes wet dreams is primarily sexual thoughts. Your dreams are a product of your subconscious mind and what goes on within it. If you're constantly allowing sexual fantasy, then you will have sexual dreams. If you orgasm in said sexual dreams, you will almost certainly orgasm in real life, thus, a wet dream.

    They can absolutely be avoided.

    I went 300 days without a single wet dream with no issues. The only time I had any was when I allowed myself sexual thoughts/fantasy in the hours before bed.

    Take control over the content of your subconscious mind, and you'll have control over the dreams you have, and can avoid wet dreams.

    That said, if you do get wet dreams, it's not a big deal. Orgasm itself is not the enemy here. Porn and edging are. So if you do have a wet dream? No biggie, you might feel a little lower energy the next day from the spike in Prolactin, but that'll resolve itself super quickly.

    That said I don't think you should seek out wet dreams either. Seeking out wet dreams for the pleasure of experiencing the orgasm seems like a really long-winded way of masturbating while "technically" not masturbating, and getting to keep your streak going. If you're actually trying to consciously induce wet dreams, I'd consider that masturbation, since you are consciously making an effort to give yourself an orgasm. If they just happen to you without you trying to make them happen, that's different, but if you're trying to make them happen, I'd question your motivations.

    If you do actually want to avoid them, focus on changing your thoughts/feelings, particularly in the hours before bed. Meditation helps a lot.
     
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  7. Lars_1998

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    ... i don't know how Meditation works..... i mean its something line Yoga.....
     
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    Never in my 21 year olds ever got wet dream.
     
  9. Lars_1998

    Lars_1998 Fapstronaut

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    ...then,its the Time now,i remember as Child/youth i get SOME......
     
  10. Marcothebest_1995

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    Had one yesterday morning, straight before my waking up. Don't worry about them
     
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  11. Lars_1998

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    i "Dream" about them ..... ;-)
     
  12. Byris

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    I've gotten some, got maybe 1/2 per week around the 30 day mark, never to completion however. Haven't had one in like 20 days I'd say.
     
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  13. tiredofbeingtired

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    Have had 3 in the last 2 weeks. Sucks.
     
  14. Lars_1998

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