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Is this relapse

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by RonTheMan, Nov 8, 2017.

  1. thicaobio

    thicaobio Fapstronaut

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    Man, my opinion is that you were strong cause didn't open the site and didn't masturbate. I think you are asking this to actualize yours days with nofap. Man, forget it and stay away from porn sites and search names that will conduct you for them. This nofap numbers I know it is important cause for me they are too. But, I think you could maintain it and next time you search porn u zero it; so do this kind of alliance with yourself. What do u think guys?
     
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  2. Markant

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    I don't think you relapsed. Did you do anything else to gain that orgasm? You didn't touch your penis but it is possible to orgasm with the help of your mind. Did you fantasize about these porn stars you looked for?

    If you didn't do anything of the above it is safe to say that you are still doing well. There are other people on this forum who had this sudden orgasm and who didn't do anything for it either
     
  3. RonTheMan

    RonTheMan Fapstronaut

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    No. I didn't fantasize..
    Thank you for clarification
     
  4. thicaobio

    thicaobio Fapstronaut

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    I wrote my opinion in the other post
     
  5. You came by the thoughts and sexual visualization this happened to me years ago the viewing of the porn caused you to ejaculate you relapsed
     
  6. RonTheMan

    RonTheMan Fapstronaut

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    Richie 1, I didn't fantasize about it...how did I relapsed?
     
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  7. Never mind it didn't count
     
  8. You didn't
     
  9. RonTheMan

    RonTheMan Fapstronaut

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    No..Richie 1. I searched for porn sites, but didn't open it. Suddenly after some seconds, sperm automatically starts coming out.
     
  10. RonTheMan

    RonTheMan Fapstronaut

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    I want more opinions guys..
     
  11. thicaobio

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    You didn't ,You didn't,You didn't....kkk... forget it and stay away from everything that can bring sexual thoughts to PMO
     
  12. RonTheMan

    RonTheMan Fapstronaut

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    Sorry for so much question thicaobio...any person would worry so much if he has disrupted his nofap count
     
  13. IggyIshness

    IggyIshness Fapstronaut

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    Did a lot? Did it come out without you knowing? I think its fine
     
  14. kingpietro

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    Yes you relapsed but isn't a huge set back watch this video:


    you're adiction is as a wound if you scratch it a little bit its not healthy but it isn't going to kill you..
    I've had the same problems i even ejaculated during day time(when i was at work) because i thought about a porn scene yes just thoughts.

    But don't be hard on yourself its a huge step you didn't look at it. The goal is to not even think about porn control you're mind and not think about porn scenes because if you do then you will edge and it will cause you to ejaculate at some point.

    Its also practice to control you're penis to not ejaculate i now feel when i am about to ejaculate and control my mind and move away and it goes away. I sometimes ejaculate when i think about certain thoughts or see a hot commercial accidently.

    in my opinion there are 3 steps in NoFap :

    1 not watching porn
    2 not masturbating (without porn) and don't use subs to porn(fo example images, naughty stories and so on)
    3 controlling you're thoughts and mind so you don't have sexual thoughts.

    And this is what happens today you had sexual thoughts porn thoughts you didn't look at it but you wanted when you where searching for it you're mind probably used previous watched scenes to get you horny and then you ejaculate.

    Be proud you are on step 3. I am also at this step it takes a lot of time its now 3 months and i still not able to control my mind completely. You just have to use the same willpower you used not to watch porn at you're thoughts.
    Watch my older topic:
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/i-jizz-my-pants-at-the-slightest-thought.108666/
     
  15. kingpietro

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    yes its a relapse but it isn't a major set back because you didn't look at it.

    But in the future try to control you're mind not to thinx about porn and search for it.

    If you do this to much it will end up having the same effects as watching porn
     
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  16. RonTheMan

    RonTheMan Fapstronaut

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    Want some more opinions....did I really relapsed?
     
  17. RonTheMan

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    Some more opinions....did I really relapsed?
     
  18. RonTheMan

    RonTheMan Fapstronaut

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    Some more opinions
     
  19. JoyLuck

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    I would say you did. The fact you were even searching is a relapse. Redirect your thoughts and activities when you see yourself heading in that direction.
    We all want to be supportive of successes but we can not enable each other.
     
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