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Planning my relapse.. NEED HELP

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Stormrage, Nov 10, 2017.

  1. Stormrage

    Stormrage Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys. Im just 4 days into the 90 day challenge. And I caught myself looking up my favorite P this morning. I quickly closed it before it was too late. But now it just want leave my mind. And i keep thinking about it. And how one time wont hurt. The fact that i used to do it everyday and now i have not done it for 4 days makes me think about how good its going to be. But then again i feel guilty already.. PLEASE advice. (I just had a shower and exercise.)
     
  2. Mr.Hopefull

    Mr.Hopefull Fapstronaut

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    This is your patience test. You need to be busy in other stuff. And divert your mind. Go NoFap for a week atleast and then you wouldnt feel the urges for PMO. Good luck
     
  3. ali.nf

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    I have dealt with the same problem. When I first started nofap I couldn't even get past 3 or 4 days because I was such a heavy user of pornography. What you need to do is constantly surround yourself with other people and spend less time being alone. All that sexual energy that is building up needs to be put into an other form of release, such as exercise, going out with friends, doing engaging activities. Just get out of the house immediately whenever you feel like you need to jerk off or watch porn.
     
  4. Stormrage

    Stormrage Fapstronaut

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    I just watched P but i stopped half way cause i cant go trough with it. It makes these last 4 days dissapear into nothingness.. but now i get the feeling i already failed so might as well get it over with... fuck this is confusing
     
  5. ali.nf

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    don't relapse bro you have to be strong. I'm currently on a 5 day streak, on day 3 I was so tempted I was on instagram looking at pictures of models & pornstars, but just like you I ended it very quickly and remembered why I was on this journey and I resisted temptation. The more you resist temptation the stronger you become. I am so strong now I know I will never relapse, even when I have my moments of looking at softcore shit.

    This is just your brain telling you have failed just so it can trick you into going back to your addiction. Don't fall for it. You have not failed if you relapse now it shows your weakness. You will have an intense feeling of guilt that is not worth it. I suggest you continue with your streak and make it to the end of the week PMO free and continue becoming stronger and stronger. Good luck
     
  6. Stormrage

    Stormrage Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much for that..
     
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