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Please help SLEEP FAPPING RELAPSE?!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Calvin6285, Nov 10, 2017.

  1. Calvin6285

    Calvin6285 Fapstronaut

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    I woke up and I had ejaculated, I uncontrollably fap in my sleep after a 30 day reboot usually and have ansolutely no control. I wore a belt to bed and it still happened. Im really depressed now and I dont know what to do, the ONLY time i relapse now is not when I choose to but when I do sleep fapping. Sleep fapping I feel like Im dreaming it, and have absolutely no awareness at all. Is this a relapse? Will it reset my progress in recovering from PIED?
     
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  2. HatePorn

    HatePorn Fapstronaut

    If you dont have control of ejeculation, its not a relapse, if you do it intentionally then its a relapse.

    And tell me more about your situation, cause its something new for me and I dont really get it. Are you dreaming that you are fapping and just having a wet dream or are you a lunatic and fap for real durring sleep?
     
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  3. Calvin6285

    Calvin6285 Fapstronaut

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    Yes, fap for real, unintentional, which has been the cause for every relapse in the last 7 months of nofap. I thought it was impossible until i started nofap, after a streak is going it always happens
     
  4. HatePorn

    HatePorn Fapstronaut

    So you were waking up holding your erect hamster, thats how you realised you are fapping for real? Ive been a lunatic before and I can tell that there is no way you can remember what you did while sleep walking.

    @Plutonium , what do you think about this?
     
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  5. Ubik

    Ubik New Fapstronaut

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    I honestly believe Wet dreams are part of the healing process Calvin. I Think it may strengthen the neural connections when you have a wetdream but don't go back to porn. I think this is true when you accidentally stumble across porn as well. So don't stress. Healing is rarely linear.
     
  6. HatePorn

    HatePorn Fapstronaut

    He is not wet dreaming, he is masterbatig unintentionally while sleeping.
     
  7. Plutonium

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    Isn't "sleep fapping" just another name for a wet dream? And I've not come across anyone who argues that a wet dream is a relapse. I do, however, doubt his attributing this to subconscious hand masturbation.

    Imho it is much ado about nothing. Hopefully @Calvin6285 can rest assured he's fine. Onwards and upwards Calvin buddy.
     
  8. Sharmaryan

    Sharmaryan Fapstronaut

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    Same thing happening with me.
     
  9. thirdtimesthecharm

    thirdtimesthecharm Fapstronaut

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    When I was about 18 I spent six months in a close-knit Christian community. For the first time I really felt loved by the people that surrounded me and I was happy. I had a problem with PMO before going there but I only remember fapping twice while there. And even those two times were when the people I was closest to had gone out of town and I felt alone in a psychological sense. After my time there was over I moved in to an apartment with my friend and tried to continue nofap (nofap wasn't around then, but being a Christian I thought it was wrong anyway).

    Anyway, it was during this time that I woke up a few times while fapping. I only started doing this when I left the community where I felt loved. Because you're asleep, you can't fix this with willpower. I just wanted to write down my experience because problems like this often go a lot deeper than we realize. Something to think about.
     
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  10. Sharmaryan

    Sharmaryan Fapstronaut

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    Have you done something to solve it
     
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  11. thirdtimesthecharm

    thirdtimesthecharm Fapstronaut

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    Just matured as a person, I guess. It's been more than ten years since the events the story occurred, and it hasn't been an issue since.
     
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  12. Sharmaryan

    Sharmaryan Fapstronaut

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    Sleep fap problem solved or not?
     

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