A Progressive Challenge-A different kind of challenge- all levels

19/30. Bring it on

 

Well, one more day now. There is a wordplay joke where 'seven days without BLANK makes one weak' .. but really, doesn't apply here because seven days without pmo can make one strong..

I had a brief look at Duolingo.. and had to do a double take when I saw High Valyrian. Looks like a good platform for learning and practicing reading/writing a language.. I just did the first lesson of High Valyrian because I was curious about it - so I might look at learning a language or two using Duolingo.. Thank you for suggesting it.

 

It's almost been a week and I'm free now, gotta report I think ^^. Well, as I stopped porn it's been 80 days and I fapped last week unfortunately. Now, I can't feel lots of difference(well, actually there are. But not as much as some freaks who say nofap makes them superheroes) but there are some. Let's see

I'm more confident about myself, I take part on activities and I'm not afraid of taking responsibilities as I'm used to.

I have more time for myself owing to the time I'm not wasting anymore with seeking porn.

I care look of mine much more, I dress better, stay more hygienic, eat better, go to the gym every 2 days.

I can focus better to the subjects I'm studying.

I have much better eye contact with people, and I'm more eager to socialise.

I have better relations with girls. Friendly or vice versa. I have many friends who are girls if I compare it with the time I used to watch porn. Also, I remember my first date of my life and the disaster of my life then. I now can see how a loser I was when I think of how I acted, how scared of that girl. Now I can flirt better with the girls I want. However, I'm still a newbie(and kinda not good-looking) and I usually fail. Still, I have self-esteem now and I'm not afraid of trying

 

day 4/5 - averted some urges this morning. Walk and fresh air!

 

9/14. Quite close to 2 weeks now.

 

Hi DerNeuMann just a doubt...after long stay without pmo and mast if any wet dream happened do we need to reset our cycle from beginning.. hope its not our mistake ..how we can avoid wet dream if any idea let us know ur guidance..

 

Generally on this site, nocturnal emission are not counted as a relapse. But be careful after it happens, because you may experience more urges - the 'chaser effect'

 

On day 6! Loving the energy I've been having, been cleaning a lot. One trigger I've been dealing with is just seeing attractive women in public, sometimes it makes me want to go home and mo.. can't wait till the day when I see an attractive girl in public and my reaction is to talk to her instead of running home and mo in my room by myself

 

You have a great attitude! Just gotta keep getting better man!

 

Back to day 0, relapsed. I was feeling the urges and I figured animated P didn't count, I'm realizing after the fact that it's still very much P... I won't be so foolish next time, I'll go take a walk instead of giving in.

 

Look at the bright side, you learned from this, and you can use the experience to avoid triggers like this in the future. Good luck!