Loner Wolf

I prefer to be alone myself wherever I go. I feel anxious to talk to ppl (at stores, greeting people known and unknown, holding conversations..) I such at public gatherings...they make me so f nervous.

 

There is nothing wrong with liking to be alone. Society just expects us to conform to their interests. I value my time spend alone. Actually, I need to be alone once in a while, as it allows me to do what I want to do without worrying about the interests of others. There shouldn't be shame in that.

 

I can understand you. In many situations I tend to be a lone wolf as well. Mostly because I`m not interested in many things that "normal" people bother. Like x got a new relationship with y, x is doing this and that, y wants to go to party x, blabla. I sense that most of the information people tell each other are completley irrelevant for me. I then think where`s the benefit in the information provided ( I always think a little bit economic in life, maybe sometimes to much )

But If I meet someone who is interested in same topics like me and even seems to be more intelligent like me, I try to ask as many questions as I can to learn more. So maybe the problem for me is that I meet mostly people who I don`t want to meet. Or most people don`t think about the real important questions of the world (but maybe because most of them are pretty young as me) It`s also a thing on work if my coworkers have to tell me about what in their opinion "special thing" they did on the last weekend and I`m just like "can we just work?" (of course not saying it but thinking it)

But maybe I`m just a guy who doesn`t understand all aspects of social interaction yet. I`m still young and willing to learn

So for today Lone Wolf wooooahhhhhhhhhh.....

 

IMHO I am merely isolated, but a loner wolf needs to have the confidence of going out without the actual need to do so. I mean, I don't go out because I am anxious AF but I want to have the confidence to be on my own without caring about the haters so much.