NoFap

  1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

New here

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by KarlMax, Nov 24, 2017.

  1. Nov 24, 2017 #1
    KarlMax

    KarlMax Fapstronaut

    10
    8
    3
    Hi, i am 40 years old and married. I reale love my wife but i also like to watch porn and of course to masturbate very often, up to 3times a day. Now i really want to stop it. If i would not be married i would think about chemical castration, but my wife could not accept it. I think she knows my problem, but she never speaks about it. May be here i can find a way to a better life.
     
    KarlMax, Nov 24, 2017
    KarlMax, Nov 24, 2017
    #1
  2. Nov 24, 2017 #2
    usef Abs

    usef Abs Fapstronaut

    32
    125
    33
    This is the first step. It takes courage to admit you have a problem and want to fix it.
    Its good that you love your wife. Use her love as motivation to stop porn.

    If you can masterbate up to 3 times a day that means you have free time on your hands and it needs to be filled with new habits. My advice is to go to the gym. Set goals to get thin and build muscles or Learn an instrument.

    goodluck.
     
    usef Abs, Nov 24, 2017
    usef Abs, Nov 24, 2017
    #2
  3. Nov 24, 2017 #3
    KarlMax

    KarlMax Fapstronaut

    10
    8
    3
    Thank you for your advice. I visit a gym once a week. Could be more often of course.
     
    KarlMax, Nov 24, 2017
    KarlMax, Nov 24, 2017
    #3
    usef Abs likes this.
  4. Nov 24, 2017 #4
    D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    13,509
    8,628
    143
    My Journal
    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
    D . J ., Nov 24, 2017
    D . J ., Nov 24, 2017
    #4
  5. Nov 24, 2017 #5
    KarlMax

    KarlMax Fapstronaut

    10
    8
    3
    Well, i dont have a plan, the only thing i know is that i have to stop my habits, otherwise they will destroy me. I know that it would be good to tell my wife all my problems, but until now i couldnt do it. I hope to get support here.
     
    KarlMax, Nov 24, 2017
    KarlMax, Nov 24, 2017
    #5
  6. Dec 10, 2017 #6
    D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    13,509
    8,628
    143
    My Journal
    Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips which may help you along your journey.

    How are you today?
     
    D . J ., Dec 10, 2017
    D . J ., Dec 10, 2017
    #6

Share This Page