Being virgin after crossing teenage is potrayed as sin or incapablity

Well you have didn't have agreed my statement, You want my opinion you got it because if I am going be honestly Society don't accept virginity toward men's, They general don't accept toward men's and that's the true but that's Society for you , if you want my opinion you already got it because Real Life there way more important thing to take care WAY WAY More important than losing virginity.

 

Okay, and that tasteless mental institute comment was apparently necessary? As I said he didn't say the whole world revolved around it, he was just confused and wanted to know what people thought. I think it's time for you to re-read what he wrote.

 

Losing your virginity to someone you care deeply for is absolutely life-changing. It isn't bad at all for someone to make that their goal; it goes along with finding the right person.

However, if your idea of losing virginity is just for the "cool points" or any reason like that, whereas it's more of an obstacle than an awarding experience, and you do nothing but seek for that, then I think your priorities should be straightened out.

 

Being a virgin doesn't make you a loser. If someone is a loser and they have sex they're still a loser. In a certain way I think some people become bigger losers because of sex. They go around and tell everyone desperately hoping people will think they're cool. Doing this can also harm the other person's reputation and it disregards their right to privacy.

 

Honestly i was worried about how guys would view me in college since i was a virgin and never had a relationship before.

I lost mine at 19 to the wrong person. Having sex didnt make me feel any different as in oh im cool now.

Honestly losing it to the right person and waiting is so much better than rushing it for the wrong person in my opinion