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My situation - apologies if this turns into a long post

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by anewhope, Jun 23, 2017.

  1. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    My SO is realized through our holiday season he's missing his showers.
    It's ttruly the little things.
    Hope you are having a great day otherwise!
     
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  2. Broken81

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    Stay strong ANH! It's a good reminder for everyone in recovery to stay vigilant. But, you are stronger than your addiction so put the urges back into a lock box and melt the key in a fire. You've got this!
     
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  3. anewhope

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    Everything seems back under control again. Not sure where that all came from and why. Thanks for the messages of support.
    Onward and upward.

    ANH
     
  4. Torn

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    I'm glad things have settled down, @anewhope. It does underscore how those pesky urges can come out of seemingly nowhere at anytime and so one has to stay strong. It's wonderful you can look back and be proud of how you handled it.
     
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  5. Kenzi

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    Rock Star said that the most difficult point of reboot was months 9-10.
    Urges and triggers from nowhere.
    He experienced the Blue Period next, but before that, just crazy urges.
    No good.
     
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  6. Kenzi

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    Love the support!! *Hugs
     
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  7. anewhope

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    Had a funny thought this morning.
    I was looking at NoFap's tag line / catch phrase 'Get a new grip on life' and admiring the gentle pun.

    I was trying to think of other phrases they might have used, but could only think of one that they definitely should avoid.

    'We shall overcome.'

    Yep, definitely one to avoid.

    ANH
     
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  8. Kenzi

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    I adore you.. LOL
     
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  9. Broken81

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    Hahaha.
    They should also avoid 'shoot for the star's'.
    They could have used "NoFap. It's not hard".
    Stop me now.
     
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    @anewhope In terms of your novel you could self publish on Amazon once you have a few proof reads under your belt. Appreciate your preparation wouldn't even approach the rigour of a real publisher but at least it would establish the market for your work and allow you to gain feedback. Not sure what genre you are writing for however if it is fiction then an initial short story or a few chapters might help ?

    Good to see you are continuing to focus !
     
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  11. Torn

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    You made me laugh, @anewhope! I hope you're doing great!
     
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  12. anewhope

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    Tomorrow (Tuesday) is the big day.
    I have a job interview at 13:30. Getting this would job would be a huge weight of my shoulders and allow me to finish what has been a great 2017 on a real high.
    Wish me luck!

    ANH
     
  13. Rob_B_

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    Good luck! :)
     
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  15. TryingToHeal

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    Best of luck to you!
     
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  17. Kenzi

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    Wishing you a thousand thoughts of very best hopes and happiness!
    You can do this and do it wonderfully!
    :) :) :)
     
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    HAHA!!!!!!
     
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