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BEWARE of "Sissy Hypnosis"

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Mikey_Niner, Mar 31, 2017.

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  1. Just nonsense huh?
    It almost destroyed my life.
     
  2. Lindahx

    Lindahx New Fapstronaut

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    I think it is good that you have confronted your addiction and come to terms with it. I have respect for that fact. Please note that I do not state that hypnofeminization is pure nonsense - I state that it is nonsense as a worldwide conspiracy. It is not small green men sitting in the dark trying to ruin the world by feminizing it.
     
  3. I don't say it's a conspiracy......
    But the fact that this whole sissy and feminization stuff is something that develops the last years enormously, isn't just a coincidence.
     
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  4. Lindahx

    Lindahx New Fapstronaut

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    In round figures app 1.400 000 americans are transsexuals and a further 2.000.000 are occasional crossdressers. That they have their "own corner" in the world of porn is hardly surprising. I do agree with you that there has been an increase in porn aimed at this group - and hypno is relatively new as a form of porn. I think the reason for this is that more people are experimenting in their sexlives and that gender has become a more floating thing. When it comes to hypno, there seems to be consensus that all hypno is selfhypno - which means that it only has effect if subject wants it to have this selected effect - temporarily or permanent. This is not to say that one cannot be addicted to hypnoeffects. A classic example to illustrate this in hypnosis is that it works well to make people give up smoking, but that it in general has zero effect on smokers that do not want to stop.
     
  5. Imho transsexuals and crossdressers have build there life on insecurities and deep rooted fears. 3,5 million doesn't surprise me at all.
    The number of families without a present father is even greater. And no father means, no manhood, no masculinity. Some woman clothes or hypnosis doesn't change facts.
    If these people are 100% open and honest to theirselves and face these deep rooted issues, the need for crossdressing would just disappear.

    This is not my opinion. It's my testimony.
     
  6. Menta_Na

    Menta_Na Fapstronaut

    So
    i never really watched hypno sissy videos, there was a time in life when i found a hentai artist that made something similar to it. it was super arousing for me, as i had already gone down the path of cross dresser and transgendered person porn.
    i remember being molested with my stepfather, and pursuing things with other young boys in my elementary days after that, but soon realized that it wasn't really me. i only ever thought about girls, and was only attracted to girls by the time i was starting to develop attraction. but then in my late teens i discovered crossdresser hentai, which turned me on to crossdresser porn, and then transwoman porn after that.
    this caused me to seriously try to convince myself that i was gay in my early twenties, and i would wear one of my cousins clothes and heels even, and tell everybody i only liked guys.
    after learning about the neurological effects of porn consumption, specifically transgendered person porn, i can tell i am definitively not gay. in my particular case, the porn made me attracted to "feminine" qualities in men, which is why i could only get attracted to femboys and twinks and the like. the high amounts of arousal i would get from this combined with the anxiety and taboo of sex with another man was the thing that made me believe i was not a straight man.
    regardless of the truth, i now know the only way to find out what i really appreciate in life is to remove pm from my life.
    the thing that scares me the most is that because of the particular ways the porn i viewed effected my neurological mapping, i am really worried about the length of time it may take to get to a place i can be comfortable and say this is me. i feel this type of porn may have made my reboot need a much larger length of time then more softcore/ "normal" would require.
     
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  7. Definitely the best thing ever you can do.
     
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  8. Menta_Na

    Menta_Na Fapstronaut

    @Lindahx if you are a psychologist you should know how detrimental what you said could be to people on this forum, and you should know this is 100% completely not the acceptable setting for you to be making these statements. Go back to your office

    @Lindahx like schizophrenia, PTSD? People that believe in conspiracy theories are just stupid, you cant get a serous psychological disorder from something so simple. there is plenty of new science coming in on how viewing porn, and escalating fetishes damage the brain, and if someone has a problem with guilt and shame and want to stop that's a good enough reason to be here, and we are trying to help each other grow as human beings and show compassion for one another.
    It is very obvious you do not have good motivations in being here, and it's not the 70's. you need to get some current information. i doubt you're a psychologist in the first place, and if you are you had better be offering these people treatment you insinuate only have guilt as an issue.

    Or just get the f*@# out of here.

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  9. Rob_B_

    Rob_B_ Fapstronaut

    I read the last few posts, and I'm thinking - 'sissy hypno'? Never heard of it. So, curious as I am, I had to google it. Pretty soon it became clear enough what it was, although I have to say I had to click through to something like page 4 or 5 of the results to find an actual definition/explanation, everything before that was just one porn site after another pushing their wares.

    All I can say is, WTF?!

    I think I prefer not knowing. :(
     
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  10. If you spend all your time dreaming up/blindly believing conspiracy theories, you probably are the kind of person to look for anything to blame for your failures except yourself. That would be hell, constantly being neurotic about some insane mastermind feminist that is gonna "getcha"....too many boogeyman stories during childhood maybe.

    Regarding sissy stuff.....all I can say is that if someone got drawn in by it and enjoyed it, they were probably predisposed to being a submissive person anyways. Real fighters never give up no matter what they are told.

    Guy: "I LOVE women!"
    Hot lady: "You like dick now"
    Guy: "Oh, ok...."

    Yeah....no.

    That's not to say you aren't a fighter if you submit to sissy behavior. It just means if you are upset about it, you aren't being true to yourself, and that dissonance is killer.
     
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  11. Menta_Na

    Menta_Na Fapstronaut

    yeah that seems like what every left wing liberal postmodernist would say. that is exactly what every psychologist i have seen has said. except for one dude that didn't graduate from a shitty low tier school like eastern. i didn't listen to what he was saying though, even after he told me. my perversion still led to seek men. everyone else told me this crap. i used to think the same thing to, but what i have read about porn addiction as of late points to this not being the case. it's just i psychological mind fuck brought up by the need to get higher stimulation from porn. ANXIETY, novelty, high risk, these things INCREASE sexual arousal. for crying out loud at one point in my life i used to like SCAT PORN!! i moved on to other things and now the very idea of it i find completely repulsive. kind of like how i USED TO BE ABLE TO GET OFF TO VAGINAS! NOT ANYMORE!
    You're trying to say it was just some deep seeded thing in my subconscious waiting to bring itself to the surface and only through pornography we are able to find our true selves?
    cmon man, there is plenty of research on this stuff. Empirical Philosophy is great and everything, but neither the makings of the universe, or the human mind are truly that simple.
     
  12. Menta_Na

    Menta_Na Fapstronaut

    Also, for me Personally i don't even care if i'm acting out on past psychological distortion, adversely faulty neurological wiring, or i really do just have a natural tendency for those type of behaviors.

    A year from now free of pmo if i am still attracted to cute and hot dudes, i'll totally fuck with one, but i have always been able to tell it's just about the dick and i'm really attracted to women. i know i wan't to be with a woman, but i have ruined my ability to be attracted to them SEXUALLY BECAUSE OF PORN.

    as to the liking dicks thing there is plenty of science on why the tran porn industry is so successful. it got me too, and it's going to take a long time to restore my natural neurological setting.

    this is all apart of the research that supports why nofap works in the first place, i don't know why people continually come into this thread to dispute this. it's not an opinion, it's not in the "eye of the beholder".
     
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  13. Neophyte

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    That's kinda what's had me feeling conflicted too. We all grew up hearing "just embrace the gay!" or whatnot so you start wondering if you're being true to yourself when you have any gay desires and don't act on them. But I feel so pathetic when I indulge in these fantasies that I know I'm doing something wrong, and it wasn't until I put significant distance between myself and pmo that I was able to see clearly that I was headed down the wrong path.

    You certainly wouldn't tell an alcoholic to just keep drinking simply because it feels good, and I think the same logic applies to sex, but because people have been discriminated against and encouraged to repress alternative sexual interest in the past, nowadays people are careful about labeling certain kinks as bad or unhealthy. What might be right for some people may not be right for you, that's why you really have to put trust in your own feelings when it comes to this, because we all know when we're fucking up and doing something stupid, that's our moral compass.
     
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  14. You better shouldn't know it.
    It's really dangerous stuff.
     
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  15. The whole sissy and feminization stuff has it's roots on insecurity / low self-esteem.
    Fix that, and the need for this sick behavior will disappear!!
     
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  16. BINGO: for str8 guys with this affliction, you nailed it.
     
  17. Exposing_babylonians

    Exposing_babylonians New Fapstronaut

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    Why this thing was created and how to heal:


    Babylonians continued their whorship of Ba'al and they promote it even today.

    For healing, you need to CHANGE YOUR HABBIT:
    Many researchers showed that there's no such thing as addiction (not even to dangerous drugs).
    Golden rule in habbit change:​
    • cues and rewards are so powerful that the best way to change a habbit is to try and find a replacement routine
      cue1 -> routine1 -> reward1 (old habbit)
    • cue1 -> routine2 -> reward1 (new habbit)
    • Forget big change, start with a tiny habit
      • trigger (what reminds you to do it everyday)
        • thing of a new thing to do instead of the old (plan it in advance)
        • be aware of what you usualy do and plan to do a new thing
    Example:
    See a internet ad popping up with a "GROW COCK AD", plan in advance that when you would see something like that, you would do what YOU WANT and thus planing a change in habbit.
    If you would normally after seeing the ad go and fap until you cum, GET that REWARD again, but do what you want in between (the routine).
    Instead of fucking your ass with dildo and watching sissy hypno, fuck your wife or dream of the girl you like and fap (or look at pictures that looks like the girl you like) and CUM (that's important, cuz its the reward. IF you don't cum, you don't rewrite the habbit.

    Observe in your life all the triggers and all the rewards (that makes sissy behavoir possible).

    After you removed all bad habbit, you can change the wrong triggers (i.e. getting hard when you see a cock).
    You change the trigger in the same way you were programmed to get hard at cocks instead of pussy.

    More:
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  18. To my guys fighting this fetish, I urge you all to pray the rosary consistently and let God purge your heart. I no longer feel nearly as enslaved to this fetish. I didn't have a a good father figure around the house, I don't know how I could ever be a father having to go through such dark times with this sexual problem.
     
  19. N0ah

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    I've been struggling with this genre for a couple of years now and I'm finding it almost impossible to kick because the fantasy side of it creates extremely strong urges. Is there any specific techniques anyone used to kick this genre especially from their life?

    The main problem I have with it is that I'm always feeling like I'm missing out on "new" content when I go on a decent sized streak. I know that all the disgusting perverted shit in it is generically the same, but this is the main reason I keep getting drawn back.

    I believe this porn genre to be the most disgusting and damaging of all porn created, as it preys on vulnerable and damaged young men and boys like myself, deeply worsening mental disorders and catalysing disastrous downward spirals in no time at all. I'm astonished that the entire content of this genre hasn't been completely wiped from the internet and made completely illegal to view and produce.
     
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  20. The truth sets you free.
    For me knowing what is really going on on a very deep level has helped me to get out of this hole.
    And my prayers were a huge help to overcome this shit.
    After all, it's our own choice if we go back or not.

    Yes, but that's exactly what porn is about. Same with new technology.
    It's our responsibility if we go back or not.
    No one is to blame but yourself.

    I agree. Because this kind of porn is touches us in our deepest need, that is the safety from our mom, and in our identity.
    Just reasons to stay away from this crap.
     
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