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Relationship between anxiety and masturbation

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Introvert24, Dec 8, 2017.

  1. aussieguy

    aussieguy Fapstronaut

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    Hey @Introvert24 I had similar advice from my ex-shrink. he told me masturbating is a way to calm myself down. BS. Couldn't be more happier since I dropped him and started actually engaging with the real world without the pornification filter

    this is so important! If we accept that we're essentially ok, deep down... we'll recover. Addiction and mental illness are NOT the essence of the person.
    High five @Beach
     
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  2. LavaMe

    LavaMe Fapstronaut

    If you use PMO to handle stress then if you give that up you’ll experience more stress. The key word is experience. PMO is a numbing coping mechanism. It helps you to not feel. Giving it up will be like withdrawal from hard drugs. It will suck. It will be hard. But, if you can get past it you will be so much better.

    You need to learn how to better handle stress and emotions because those don’t go away. Good counseling should be able to help you with that.
     
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  3. Introvert24

    Introvert24 Fapstronaut

    Thanks for sharing your experience :)
     
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  4. Introvert24

    Introvert24 Fapstronaut

    exactly. I would think PMO would relieve anxiety but it only increases it usually.
     
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  5. Introvert24

    Introvert24 Fapstronaut

    Thing is PMO has only made me hate myself. Its true I need to love myself more though, that was one of the main talking points during therapy sessions.
     

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