Accepting my Trans Attraction

I had the same problem. I overcame this attraction by stopping porn.

 

I think if an attraction is purely physical and fetish in nature then its porn induced. If you see yourself marrying a trans woman then you are most likely bisexual.

 

Then I guess its ok if you feel emotionally and physically attracted to them. They are people just like anyone else.

 

I dunno much about religion. But I doubt the creator of life and love would be mad if you love someone, regardless of their gender. I think you should embrace your feelings and be happy.

 

I just follow my heart, not a book. No offence.

 

I don't want to get in any arguments with anyone who believes in the current bible, but it's a historically proven fact that the Bible we have now has been heavily edited by men over the past centuries. Parts have been added or removed based solely on the whims of the ones in charge. So if it ever was the word of God, it's been heavily censored.

So my advice is don't live your life based on individual racist/intolerant or misogynistic rules written by long deceased men.
If you really believe in God then follow the important general rules that religion offers, about loving other people and not causing any harm to others.
Like many spiritual people have said, after you die, you're not going to be judged on if you eat fish or pork on the wrong day. You're going to be judged on the things that really matter.
Otherwise , and i'm paraphrasing an extreme example, all non-christians who didn't have the chance to believe in God would be sentenced to Limbo just because there wasn't a priest around to teach them not to eat meat on Fridays or recite the proper prayers every night.

That's like saying that a man who lived his entirely life helping others, being kind, being just and refraining from hurting anyone should go to Hell or Limbo just because he loved another man.

Or do you think that God would use double standards just because you know about the Bible and the atheists didn't and as a result judge you more harshly ?
Wouldn't that be unfair and unjust ?

 

I asked a friend here who has struggled with this, and this is his reply

“The trans attraction thread is difficult. I'm not sure accepting the lust is the right choice. Observing it and ruminating on why it exists might send our subconscious a better message. I discovered, after a lot of work and time, that my neuralpathways have been trained for so many years at the sight of a man with boobs who could passas a beautiful woman. Just because it might still excite medoesn't mean I like or desire it.The habit was eventually discovered as existing becauseI didn't feel "good enough" to warrant a real, beautiful woman, subconsciously. But this was all bullshit. Accepting myself and my flaws, while still working to be in alignment with my principles, has freed me into believing I am worthy and I am valuable. This has given me clearer sight into what I truly want -- a great relationship(s) with awoman/women who we have strong attraction and sexual polarity with. I've been able to assume my role and embrace my divine masculinity, because I understand my purpose now more than ever before.

You can share that anonymously with the OP of that thread. Tell him there's hope but it takes a lot of work,and professional help might be the best way to create a plan for recovery. Abandoning the psubs and P is mandatory.”

Wishing you the best x

 

I too had the exact same thing happen. As I watched more and more porn, I was bored with the same genres and started checking out the "dark side" of porn. Transexual porn, midgets, hell I've sat through an entire vomit video once. It's disgusting yes..part of the disease.

I began to think, maybe that's what my problem was, I was secretly attracted to transexuals or hell even men?? But then when I'd stop and think about it, or see a transgender in person, I never felt anything for them, not sexually, not curiosity. I realized then, it was the porn addiction that had me all messed up.

 

Honestly I feel the same way before NoFap I thought I wasn't worthy to women always in a weak state I knew my pmo was getting worse because of the things I was getting into I was never attracted to trans women ever and I was being wired too I needed cut it all off and refocus now after 8 months of NoFap I know I can attract a beautiful woman in my life and I want to start a family I'm not judging anyone but I think my trans fetish was that only a fetish you can porn brain washes and emasculates us it's demonic your fapping away your soul life force just to feel pleasure for that short time than it's a vicious cycle if you were attracted to trans before porn that's different but I honestly believe porn trains us to go for more depravity and stray further away from the most high keeps us in lower frequency so we are easier to control

 

Jesus uses parables in the book of Matthew you for things that you just explained people like that are Pharisees

 

I use to really like traps and transgendered people, but I just sort of got over it over time. I mean some of them are very attractive, but realistically speaking its just not practical to seek them out for serious relationships.