I hate seeing attractive single women at church.

Back at you.

 

I'm not going anywhere. I'm still here. Just find your accusations hilarious

 

Thanks. You provide a lot of great material.

 

I'm not part of any denomination and that should be enough for you know exactly what I believe.

 

Easier said than done, but try to dedicate yourself to focusing on the scripture and word... set yourself aside at church because clearly by going, you are acknowledging a greater power... something bigger than all of us... you must focus on your God and nothing else and you won’t be bothered

 

Oh no I absolutely do, and I don’t think there is anything wrong with that... there are beautiful women everywhere, yet that’s all that you can allow your mind to extend it to. Simply acknowledge “Hey, wow, she is a beautiful women...” and move on. Don’t fantasize about her or wonder if she is single... wish her happiness and joy and remain focused on why you attend church and what your goal is.

 

You could always become a monk and join a monastery. That way you won't see many attractive women, in fact you'll probably won't see much women at all.

 

Just some motivation if anyone chooses to go down the monk path

 

Let me be serious for a moment... You can't avoid attractive women so you need to change your attitude towards women. These women aren't the problem, your mind is so you need to renew it. Women shouldn't be made to feel bad because someone finds them attractive. Many churches have done really well in dehumanizing women because they've made many women think all they are is nothing but an evil temptation. After all these women are your sisters and you should love them.

 

It took sometime to read the proper answer.
The problem is always inside us, not outside.

 

There was a period in my life when I thought maybe I would be but I have too much doubts to be one now.

 

I don't understand why Christian women nowdays don't cover themselves like the ancient Christians used to do. I mean Maria/Marry, mother of Jesus, was a women who covered herself. There is no painting of her whitout her covering. Did the law change or do you not take it serious anymore?