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Is this a relapse? I hope I don't bother you by this. Someone please reply asap

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Jojo_mojo, Dec 17, 2017.

  1. Jojo_mojo

    Jojo_mojo Fapstronaut

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    Ok, I know what you're going to think and yes it's pathetic but... I was in bed and I had some urges and I started fantasizing about a girl that I used to know and dry humping my bet as if I were pretending to do it but I wasn't close to climaxing and neither did I get any orgasms. Should I reset my counter on this one?
     
  2. Jojo_mojo

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    Thanks for the help you're a real life saver
     
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  3. You did what most people describe as "edging". Which is masturbation without climax.

    Going off your counter, technically you did relapse since you're trying to abstain from masturbation, however, mistakes during a streak are expected.

    So ultimately, you're fine. Keep on trucking and try not to let it happen again.
     
  4. Jojo_mojo

    Jojo_mojo Fapstronaut

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    That's a relief that I don't have to reset my counter, it's just I didn't know if it was or not. Thanks man
     
  5. Warrior mode

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    Take a cold shower! It will kinda refresh you and cool you down! This is not a relapse but it would have lead to a relapse!
    So be very vigilant of your thoughts!
    Observe your thoughts and steer your mind away from provocative thoughts!
     
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  6. Thanks for sharing.
    I watched a man on youtube a while back called Clasik Obas, he shares a few different views to me however he mentioned doing this as a means of exercising sexual energy. I disagree. My opinion?
    Reseting your counter isn't the important thing to be thinking about.
    Think about your thoughts and beliefs...
    Even though I myself have fantasized hundreds of times in my past, doing that you are disrespecting that woman. Consider what YOU want to be spending YOUR time doing?
    Is it healthy for YOU to fantasize about women full stop?
    Aak yourself...
    Is this action in line with my beliefs?
    Managing to not PMO is a skill. I believe learning to not PMO and live your life authentically is a noble aim for yourself.
     
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  7. Warrior mode

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    Absolutely i agree with you buddy!
     
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  8. James_007

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    Bro this will happen and mind will take over the control as its a deep seated habiy. Be gentle with yourself and be more aware next time and just watch the urge and let it pass
     
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  9. nofepfepforlife

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    Reset your counter. Also never ever masturbate prone, very bad.
     
  10. If I did this I would probably reset my counter to be honest. It’s basically masturbating to images in your head which is the same as watching a porn movie.

    I get urges and fantasies about girls all the time during my reboot. The difference is I don’t act on them at all. No masturbating my body. It seems to be working so far because, my libido, morning wood and erections have returned.
     
  11. BryceLi

    BryceLi Fapstronaut

    Unfortunately, this is prone masturabation. I wouldn’t get to Down about it because you didn’t really know you were technically PMO’ing
     

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