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GF attraction?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by malwarebytes, Dec 28, 2017.

  1. Dec 28, 2017 #1
    malwarebytes

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    hello, i feel like i´m less attracted to my girlfriend when i fap every day. do you guys think thats normal? i don´t know if i really love her some days.
     
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  2. Dec 28, 2017 #2
    Rebooter1221

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    It is not normal. You should not masturbate. You are loosing interest in her because you satisfy yourself by yourself. If you keep going you will loose her because she will not be noticed by you. Stop it before its too late.
    It will be better if you stop masturbate and if you can, if she say yes, do these things with her instead :)
     
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  3. Dec 28, 2017 #3
    AntonJeruta

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    The next time u fap, ask her to do it with u.
     
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  4. Dec 28, 2017 #4
    Mike_July_2017

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    Yes, that is natural. First, your gf cannot compete on looks with the starlets + makeup + lighting + editing you see in porn. Secondly, as your brain thinks you are fucking multiple women, it makes you less attracted to each of them.
     
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  5. Dec 28, 2017 #5
    sadhu

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    Yes, it has been scientifically proven that when you fappen a lot, you lose the chemicals which help your brain trigger emotions. So yeah, at one point you cannot feel the love. It happens.
     
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  6. Dec 28, 2017 #6
    malwarebytes

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    mhm i guess i got to get my shit together. you guys gave me some inspiration, thank you!
     
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  7. Dec 28, 2017 #7
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    Definitely! I ended my relationship because of that. I lost all sexual interest in her and only wanted to satisfy my emotional needs with her while she needed sexual too. The distance started to grow and you know how things went after that. So yes, porn and fapping can destroy a relationship. Wish you the best!
     
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  8. Dec 28, 2017 #8
    malwarebytes

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    mhm fuck.. whenever something bad happened between us i feel shitty and i start fapping again. i´ll talk to my therapist about it, its a huge problem i really want to get rid of! i cut out porn already like 6 months ago but i drifted back into fapping. thank you for the warm words kanekiken
    also my girlfriend knows that i´m fapping more often these days. could you guys think of anything she could help me with to fight the addiction? maybe she could ask me several times in a week if i kept clean of it?
     
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  9. Dec 28, 2017 #9
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    maybe you should talk about this with her and ask her so you can call her when you feel like you are about to do so she could help and support you
     
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  10. Dec 28, 2017 #10
    malwarebytes

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    yes absolutely will do so. i´ll figure something out.
     
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