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Need motivation!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by kakaji99, Sep 27, 2014.

  1. Sep 27, 2014 #1
    kakaji99

    kakaji99 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys, I came to know about NoFap today itself and I have a few concerns. I don't have a girlfriend so no PMO actually means no sexual pleasure at all for me, wouldn't this drive me crazy? To those who'll say that "Oh you'll find a girlfriend eventually through no PMO", I can't really believe it. I do look attractive but I believe that getting a girlfriend involves luck as my past tries haven't yielded any results. Also, I am afraid that getting a girlfriend might result in more time and money being wasted :( and that's why I don't try too hard to get a girl. So, what can be my motivation to take up this challenge? I am just 19 and don't suffer with any depression or social anxiety and such. I am a happy person, good in studies. Please guide me.

    Thanks.
     
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  2. Sep 27, 2014 #2
    Dad

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    There might be people who disagree with me, but I find a big difference between porn with masturbation, and masturbation alone. I have chosen to have zero tolerance for porn in my life, at the same time I allow for occassional masturbation.
    It is inconceivable to me that a 19 year old abstain from sexual stimulation. My advice to you, avoid sexual stimulation as much as possible, and allow the random act of masturbation to happen when it will. If a girlfriend is what you want, it will happen while you live your life and follow your passion. In my experience, those who try too hard to get a partner, end up with a trail of failed relationships that were forced and contrived.
     
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  3. Sep 27, 2014 #3
    vlaw

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    You can always visit a cute Asian prositutue like onces or twice a month. This is what I always to do here in the west...since I don't like/want nothing to do with western women!

    Please don't let the white knights/feminists on here guilty trip you. I plan to reward myself/visit one cute one after I reach day 90 of hardmode.
     
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