How to stay busy when you have nothing else to do?

You should try meditating bro, it genuinely helps when trying to control the urges. Try being creative too, use your pent up sexual energy to draw, make music or write.

These things really capture your focus and suppress the urges to masturbate. Stay strong dude and don’t give up.

 

I agree. I haven't meditated often, but it didn't take long to start to see the benefits. I recommend starting off with one of the many guided meditations available online.

Time flies whilst you meditate and afterwards your mind is clear to focus on your next task.

 

Maybe you could go for a short walk. I don't know which your illness is, but I heard morbidly obese people are advised to go for walks. Soo... thats my suggestion

 

If by ''I can't work'' you meant you can't go out of your house, then sign up in upwork.com, freelancer.com and other freelance sites and even if you don't have any skills, you can do virtual assistant work, data entry etc. Will keep you very busy and you will earn incomes. Also you can see what is on demand there and you can upgrade your skills, so then you can work on more projects there. Invest your home time on improving yourself.

 

If you are a virgin and tired of waiting to find a girlfriend I recommend you to hire a prostitute. I lost my virginity with one. No regrets.

 

@culion, once you hire a prostitute is not like then guys will start to do that regularly? The ones I know are now addicted to prostitutes and cheat wives with them. Or it is not like that in all cases?

 

I once had a guy tell me he lost his virginity with a prostitute and felt a lot of shame around it, and years later he finds himself being in sugar daddy relationships with younger women. Make of that what you will, I'm just relaying the info.

 

Reading and meditation can take up so much time it's mind boggling, or if you'd prefer to do something else I'm sort of bobbing my head to music now as I'm typing this. Maybe complex music can help you knowing that while you are inside a house you are listening to worlds of music. I know it might sound crazy but every time I meditate the sexual energy sort of dissipates. I'm a 25 year old virgin and the thought of a prostitute has crossed my mind many times...and it really doesn't help living in Nevada. I think I will always be too nervous or scared to actually go through with it.

 

I suggest you pick up a hobby that demands that you continue to learn and improve something. Music, Art, making gameplay videos for youtube/twitch, studying a subject, or whatever it is you are interested in? If you like history, then start studying history and maybe go back to school for it. Idle hands are the devil's workshop!

 

I don't think i'm a addict to prostitutes. I visit brothels two times a month. There are couples that have sex every day but if I pay for sex two times a month i'm a pervert sex addict. I am an aromantic so i don't think ill be in a relationship in my life. I'm totally against cheating in relationships, if someone in a relationship wants to have sex with other person the couple have to go to a open relationship and with their consents do it.

 

I'm not a romantic person so is not possible for me to be in a relationship with younger women. Im 31 and in the brothels were i go you can choose women from different ages, im not only sexually attracted to just one type of woman like young ladies.

 

Why are you nervous to hire a prostitute? STD's? get scammed?. I'm not from the U.S., but i have read that in Nevada is legal to visit brothels, i think you need something like 250-500 to visit Bunny Ranch. I highly doubt you will be scammed in that brothel. And STD's, is very rare to get one if you use a condom, but you know, you can get an STD even with a girlfriend.

 

Yes that's why I alluded to the fact that living in Nevada puts my mind on constant edge. I know it's clean and I won't get scammed but the thought of hearing ohhh ummm and errrr from my mouth just makes me cringe. Well it doesn't matter because I don't really have money anyway.

 

Sorry if I was putting you under pressure. I was nervous too the first time I payed for sex. I couldn't sleep well the night before because I was worried about STD's or being scammed, but everything was fine at the end.
I don't think prostitution is wrong or to feel shame for. Is not unethical and you wont become a loser if you pay for it. I still feel nervous/anxious when i go to brothels but is not because of feeling shame for paying for it, is because of my social anxiety.

 

Read Grant Cardone's book.

Be Obsessed or Be Average.

Do the exercises. Answer the questions. You'll know what to stay busy with.

 

theres a brothel in my area of my city ,talk about convenience ,been to it twice couple years ago,they are a business,there is no awkwardness an they know how to deal with the situation for it not to be awkward, ive been in a long term serious relationship before my first brothel experience but still i was nervous as hell an it took months of convincing myself to attempt my first time,it was way before i discovered nofap, i was deep in the pmo addiction at the time, i was experiencing ED on my first time so it wasnt really id all a great experience,i waited awhile then gave it a 2nd time, i choose the same girl i really like her she was Italian an easy to talk to, but she was acting an talking weird she was high on something, she collapsed an wouldnt wake up, i had to call for help, very very bad experience, the escort agency took her name off the choice of girls i guess they let her go an replaced her with a new girl, you got to understand a person is going to have to be disturbed an have personal issues growing up in order to be in that business, when we have sex or any sexual act we use out sexual energy we transfer it, we receive the other persons energy, growing an keeping our sexual energy is highly important, sex is a magical ritual, i was always high an always partying an always pmo ing that lead me to escorts, i admit knowing this i still peek at the agency an see what girls they have , i still have a deep desire to run back to escorts, but ive been NoFap for along time im not trying to throw that away for a stranger, im on a great level right now, spiritually, mentally an physically, financially, i also gotta remember when i do fortunately get into another serious relationship i need to tell her my past , an getting a escort in the past is something i have to admit , i run a chance of causing the girl to be grossed out an dump me but thats my record, i m gonna have to find a girl that really really loves me i guess,

 

Please no more wall of text

I lost my virginity to a prostitute when I was 20. I had already masturbated earlier that day so I couldn't cum. It still felt good, but I was kind of like, "That's it? What's the big deal?" The second time I had sex was with another prostitute. I masturbated that day too and it took over 40 minutes to cum. Had sex with a third prostitute later that same night and couldn't cum again. That was 16 years ago and those are the only three sexual encounters that I have ever had. For some reason I got worried about diseases after that, so I just fapped almost every day until i got ed a decade later.

After reading this thread, I suddenly feel tempted to call an escort service. Will have to add "orgasm" to my pmo tracker, but it's not like I have the money anyways. I am broke, so I will exercise and meditate before going to sleep. /(

 

I have difficulties to cum when I have sex too. So I decided to stop masturbating an do the NoFap challenge.

 

ps to me the escort business is like actually being a actor in a adult film just a another false reality