100 days no PMO on new years eve

So guys i'm about to write my second thread after my first desperate one in March where i was so depressed and without hope. Also masturbation without porn was getting me so sad, i was doing it too often and after a while i felt like my fantasies where just porn scenes with a hot girl i met as protagonist. I needed to change.

Now i feel much better, and is such a coincidence that day 100 of my no PMO challenge matched with new years eve, as i started the 22nd of September 2017, and the best part is that i don't want to stop at all !! And most of all i improved my discipline and i set the "improving every day" mindset in my head and i want to keep it for the rest of my life !!
I feel more confident, i'm tryng to improve my seduction skills, i cold approached girls in the street, got some numbers, some kisses (no sex still but i'm working on that) and i'm starting to take cold showers too !!

So what i did to reach my goal ?

I treated my penis like Kryptonite basically. I touched it only to pee.

The rules where:

- Ejaculation was not admitted unless after having sex with a girl or as a not spontaneous act like a wet dream (wich i had many ! Like 7 or more during this period).

- Porn was completely banned from my devices, and also everything that could lead to it. For example i unfollowed fb pages or friends that shared too many hot girls' picture.

Before starting i had sex with a hooker, just to get in touch sexually with a real woman and i think that it helped a lot, the idea that one day i will make it with a girl i like pushed me to be persistent in the challenge.

I suggest everyone who is really struggling to quit porn to pay a hooker, it wasn't the first time that i did it and there's nothing to be ashamed of about that !

Also is very important to not think about the challenge to much, don't count the days ! Circle the last day you fapped on your calendar and live your life normally. Whatever it happens in your life (flatlines, headakes, love life failures...) absolutely don't watch porn and don't fap. After many days passed, you will find yourself in front of the calendar by mistake,then you can count the days all togheter. You will be surprised of your improvements.

To finish i want to say that if i managed to win the challenge, everybody can !

Because believe me my situation was terrible

Wish all of you the best for the new year

 

Well, in all our character resume there are hours and hours of jacking off in front of a screen already, something nobody of us is going to tell to our future girlfriend/wifes.
But we are not our past. When we will meet a special someone she will know the person we are in that moment.
From my way of seeing things, in some cases the final result justifies the means, and thats one of the cases

It can be dangerous as well if it starts getting the features of an addiction (you constantly think about that, you always want more and more, you can't stop doing it despite social and financial problems etc.) but i suggested people to do it only once, in order to make the reboot more effective. Of course having sex with a girl you are in love with is much better, but i believe 70% of people in this forum is not that lucky to have such a special person in their life.

Thanks for your feedback guys