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Wet Dreams

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by AChosenPeople, Dec 29, 2017.

  1. Steve Sancteria

    Steve Sancteria Fapstronaut

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    Don't worry, the longer ur used to the lifestyle, the easier it becomes to wash away the stupid thoughts.
    I've relapsed like every 4 days for months when I've started the thing, now after 1 year, you don't bother too much about strategies or what so ever, you just stop doing PMO and focus on other things.
    You also become more aware when you see multiple triggers after a while, like hanging around on social media or watching certain series, when I catch myself that something makes me want to think in a dirty way, I just stop doing it...it took a while to actually learn how to stop in such situations
     
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  2. Steve Sancteria

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    I think our brains build certain dreams based on the subconscious flow in the very exact same way.
    It's one thing to keep PMO away from your consciousness, another to keep it away from the subconscious mind.

    I still don't think that it's pure accident that I don't encounter urges or wet dreams nor thinking about NoFap 24/7
     
  3. AChosenPeople

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    wet dreams can be avoided, and should be avoided by people that want them to be avoided, for their individual reasons. they can trigger a relapse.
     
  4. AChosenPeople

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    You might still get wet dreams while forgetting that it even exists. Do you know those dreams with old friends/ colleagues from primary school or kindergarden, high school if you're a bit older, you forgot they even exist, but they're still in your subconcious mind. I have done my duty to do other stuff than think about PMO, yet once in a while I have a Wet Dream, because my body craves an orgasm. I will grow stronger & resist the urge even in the Dream, with the help of Christ.
     
  5. MarkTT52947

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    That's simply ignorance or mental illness. No one can "avoid" wet dreams. That is kind of like talking about avoiding urination.

    They are a natural occurrence of the human body. What can help a person avoid wet dreams is having adequate sexual release through healthy sexual activity. Sex is a natural human need, and humans who are healthy and say fro 12 to about 40 and in good health are primed for sexual release beyond what most people get, despite the limitations to get it in society. It is because the human body is organized naturally "to be fruitful and multiply."

    Recovery means learning to accept the healthy sexual aspects of being a natural human being and learning that pornography and the fantasies associated with it and porn-induced and porn fantasy masterbation have absolutely NOTHING TO DO WITH HEALTHY SEXUALITY. and learning not do deal with them.

    My sexual being a senior, I dont have that problem any more, but I know that since I have been clean here I have battled strong sexual feelings in the times I used to masturbate or fantasize. It is not wrong that I feel sexual. What is wrong is the idea that I need to masturbate and have porn like fantasies to relieve or express those feelings as opposed to making love with my wife.

    Yes if people had the ignorant antisexual idea that there is something wrong with wet dreams or they are evil or "sinful" then they will feel negative about themselves and get back into all the bad stuff.

    What they have tolearn is to nofap then and in any other period. What they need to learn is that their sexuality and porn and porn fantasy masterbation is not a solution.

    It
     
  6. AChosenPeople

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    you can avoid wet dreams. by applying these steps you reduce the frequency of wet dreams doing reboot. after reboot they will slowly fade out forever then you can become a monk and live for 120 years. no orgasm for the rest of ur life.
     
  7. Trucker

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    I've not tried to start a 'reboot' yet as I don't think I'm ready to take such a big step but I know from experience if I have sexual thoughts over a girl I've seen I can't last more than a week very tops without having a wet dream over her or even someone else, usually one of the same few girls.
    I can't see how I could ever reboot while this always happens.
     
  8. AChosenPeople

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    With time, the frequency of wet dreams will decrease, as you stop PMO-ing for good.
     

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