Why am I leaving NoFap; The truth about this community

Interesting. Bye

 

This post is definitely interesting!

 

This forum is very useful. You just need to use it right. There is a great community united by one healthy goal. This is a unique fenomenon, because ten years ago, you couldn't find places, where you can talk about this kind of problems, and meet so supportive community and so many instruments to really go for your goals. Also condemning others and posing as a superman is not the most worthy behavior in my opinion, which means that you are also not perfect my friend. We are irritated in others only by what already exists in ourselves.

 

I ignored the OP a while back after I got in an argument with him in his journal thread. I haven't read his posts here but all I can say is good riddance! He was nothing but a detriment to this community.

 

All you have done here is present a strawman argument that misinterprets the point of NoFap massively. NoFap at its core can be boiled down to "The idea that excessive porn consumption and masturbation is a bad idea and that if you struggle with it then try to abstain for a while", literally everything else is just individuals coming together on these forums, on the sub-reddit, wherever, to apply their own thinking to that basic concept and arriving at different results.

Want to make NoFap a religious thing? Do it!

Want to use NoFap as a way to reduce anxiety or mental blocks? Why not, give it a try?

Want to use NoFap to regain sexual function and drive? Go ahead!

My point is that NoFap is what you make of it, and no offence but coming onto a forum full of people who are full blown PMO addicts and taking a massive shit on their progress and attempts to progress is a shitty thing to do. You arent trying to wake people up, you're trying to convince a group of strangers that you're more intelligent than they are in a pretentious pissing contest I'm glad the other people commenting arent being baited by.

 

If the OP has truly left why not delete this poor excuse for thread. If you can't quit porn for such a short time as 90 days then you are an addict. I feel sorry for the OP having to rant to justify his guilt because of failure. He will never experience the clarity and peace of mind that comes from NoFap.

 

Someone already said this earlier in the thread but posting a thread ranting about giving up (which is what OP is doing) is just a form of attention seeking. Posting a thread after 90 days saying NoFap didn't help you at all would be one thing, but its the pretentious snobbery of the post that I took issue with. OP could have posted a picture of the fedora tipping meme and it would have gotten across the same message lol.

 

This site improve me ... This is my Opinion..

 

Saying in a long post that people who make long posts are boring.

Baaaahaaaahaaaaaa.

 

Everyone is entitled to their own "opinion", but yours is just rubbish mate. Skimming your wall of text and cutting through all the fat told me that you're a failure, and now you're angry because either it was too hard for you or you just decided to stick with your addiction because it's "safer" and easier. It's the lies an addict in denial protecting and giving excuses for their habit, nothing more.

Everybody has their own way of dealing with an addiction and porn/masturbation are obviously a huge problem for everyone here otherwise we wouldn't be on this site in the first place, so don't shove your pathetic excuses down our throat. While that is truly sad people are dying, starving, or whatever, that has nothing to do with me or anybody here fighting this very real addiction and I hate people like you that always throw that bs in there. Somebody's life will always be harder than your own and that's true, but again what does that have to do with me or anybody else?

Who cares how much time somebody spends here either? If it helps people that's great, it beats the alternative of porn, and there's a wealth of information here that range from success stories to tips so don't bloody well say this site is worthless just because you failed.

I figure you won't read this but oh well, that's what I think of this crap anyways. I hope you find happiness in your life or figure out what's bothering you so much, because that's a terrible way to live with all that bitterness.

 

Longest post ever complains about long posts....lol

 

Short and savage. I like it.

 

The first post on this thread is the direct proof that masturbation effects you mentally.

But i am wondering, what scientific facts? lol

 

I dont know why its so hard to understand for him that on a basic level redirecting the energy and time spent PMO'ing into something else is beneficial to everyone (the only person it wouldnt help is someone who doesnt PMO, in which case why would you even attempt NoFap at all). Even if a person were to spend 15 minutes a week doing it, thats still 15 minutes worth of energy and time that could be better spent on something else. Everything else he writes doesnt even make sense and falls apart immediately under scrutiny.

 

Adios. May the chocolate chips in your cookies always turn out to be raisins.

 

Bud... put a trigger warning on that gif... I can't stop thinking about that attack back on Hoth