Why forced femdom?

Usually because when you watch porn over time it just doesn't satisfy you as much so you watch more extreme porn to get that rush that you like. Happened to me as well unfortunately.

 

Yeah me too, it's the most addictive shit ever. I have no idea why man... I was 7 years addicted to porn, now i'm not, but still i'm into femdom a bit.. And i want to delete this from my life, and i want to help everyione who's into femdom... I was not into sissy things, more into JOI/POV verbal humiliation, foot fetish things... But you know, there are a lot of things in femdom that make watcher feel miserable, like strap-on, toilet slave, forced bi, etc. Are you better now? Do you have relapses?

 

Things just escalate. Porn is no different than a drug, at first a little gets you high and then you have to keep upping the dose to get off or to get that high. For me it started off with normal porn then turned into rape fantasy, BDSM, wanting to choke, smack, and have really rough sex with my GF(she was kind of into it, she also watched porn). And sometimes turned into femdom.

 

I also did a lot

 

Childhood trauma.

 

One possibility/my theory:

If you feel bad, your brain seeks for balance, wants a dopamine shot to feel better.

bad feelings -> regular medication with PMO -> pain/orgasm pattern in your brain -> masochistic cravings

Every time you fap, you basically brainwash yourself into something.

The pattern pain/orgasm may become so strong over the years, that you actively inflict pain on yourself to provoke more PMO-medication=orgasms.

For example you are with an attractive woman (she has your sexual focus), but she humilates and hurts you
-> bad feeling + sexual = the pattern activated -> orgasm

 

What's this femdom? I googled it, and nothing shows up.

 

yeah, right, I believe that - not. duckduckgo.com had a a shit-ton of hits.

ETA: I just realized you may be searching in safe mode - SORRY ABOUT THAT!!

There was this:

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Femdom

 

I was heavily into cfnm and actually found an online community of women who get off on seeing naked men.

I almost went so far as going to a party where I'd have been naked for the pleasures of a group of girls.

Normal turn of events is that you end up wanking for them while they watch.

Managed to resist the invite, fortunately

 

You are so lucky if you don't even know what is this shit.

Femdom fucked up my life, so i declare war on it 8 months ago.