A QUESTION & POLL : Does SEX have a positive or negative effect on you ????

You're going to have to be a little more specific.

Sex with a girlfriend? Sex with strangers? Sex with hookers?

What kind of sex? Handjobs, blowjobs, anal?

How regularly are we talking? Everyday sex? Once a week? Whenever you can get it?

My answer would be different for each of these.

 

I have been having sex with my wife every 3-4 days and I have found it amazing. O is completely different, I am more attracted to her, she is more attracted to me. I do have difficulty going the distance now though, but so far no complaints. I don't think I could quit PMO without sex.

Afterwards I don't think about it or worry I have lost my new powers or anything and I feel fine. I feel better about myself, don't feel the need to look at every woman and judge them on their screwability, in life and on TV. A burden is gradually being lifted off my being all thanks to quitting PMO.

 

Hmmm I started to lose focus because I started to focus on this one girl. But I suppose its because I felt that a relationship was coming and sex I don't think so. I feel its because I was so head over heels to soon. See all my relations have been one night stands to fwb so I thought this was it. Afraid to say the more I learned the less interested I got but thats just my life. The relationship part when your focused on it can distract you a bit until you realize to refocus but sex by itself I would say no unless thats all your focused on than maybe.

 

I believe having sex with your partner, someone you love, is a healthy thing, especially if you are able to retain your semen. More than once a week, though, is enough create dopamine respose problems in both partners, and therefore should be practiced less than that. Karezza would be the ideal sexual practice between two lovers. Any sex act that could not result in a child (ie blowjob, anal, etc) should be avoided. Sex for pay (ie hookers) and solo sex are off limits.

This is my opinion, and so you see, the answer to your question is not yes or no.

 

Woh Woh Woh!!! Hang on a second...

I thought it was just wanking that is bad. Now people are saying hookers are bad as well? That doesn't sound right. Sex with hookers is still sex with a woman. They are human beings too... I think it's a bit degrading to think of them as if they aren't human.

What does it really matter, if it's a hooker, one night stand, girlfriend, etc? They are all still women! As long as the frequency is kept reasonable, and not every single day, I don't see why this would be a problem! It is way different than wanking!! This is NoFap! Not NoSexUnlessYouAreMarried!

I feel like there is too much holier-than-thou religious attitudes on this forum.

 

Statistically, the majority of people on this site are atheists. You and others are entitled to your own opinions about prostitutes.

 

Basically, I have nothing againt one-night-stand. The only problem is what motivate you to your one-night-stand. I feel that this can be a "form of escape from the reality" - something like wathing TV and don´t know, why. Or something like overeating like crazy, just because you have eaten too much and it doesn´t matter now. Something like masturbating when you feel terrible...

But if you feel that this the women, you really want to have sex with, but nothing more. You feel, that this wouldn´t work as a relationship; than I think it can be really uplifting experience. The other point is if you are in some long-term relatioship or not in that time...

Just my opinion, nothing more.