Psht, is this guy full of shit or what?

At any point he could have said no, stop, or called for help. They just let her leave without calling the cops, really? If someone attempted to rape me I would fight back and call for help. People are actually raped and traumatized by it. He's just wants to be an attention whore.

 

This is a joke.

 

No jokes require skill.

 

It's possible for a man to have an erection against his will and It’s still rape if he didn’t consent but let it happen. Maybe he just froze up? one of our survival instincts, aside from fight or flight, is to simply freeze when surprised or in danger.

I do agree there's a whole lot of doubt here about whether he actually consented. But I just want to address the fairly common idea that not saying no is the same as saying yes. I'm not saying you actually think or said that, though. But It's usually a male power kind of thing to say after intimidating a woman into sex.

 

A conflicting message when your famous for this.

 

Tell 'em Rick.

 

I'm honestly surprised this guy is still relevant, he seems to be having a major set of mental issues in the last few years, like a desire to show himself off as an artist other than just his acting. This is fine, but really he wasn't tied to the table, he had the opportunity at any time to put a stop to what was happening and even if the attention was unwanted, I hardly think that he could not have gotten himself out of the situation had he been willing to try.

 

Not to mention that men have more physical strength than women, generally speaking. If someone isn't comfortable with the advances being made on them they have to push that person back, speak up, or do something. In Shia's case if you never even attempted to stop the "rapist" then you have to accept some blame for being so passive that you'd let anyone do anything to you.

Aziz Ansari was recently accused of sexually assaulting a woman. From what I've gathered she claims he pressured her into taking an encounter further than she wanted. She claims to have given nonverbal cues for him to stop, but stayed with him in the apartment. She didn't say stop, she didn't run away, and she didn't call for help. If Aziz really was going out of her comfort zone then by all means she should have left him with blue balls. Doing nothing and later making false claims to be assaulted is slander. Anyone who disagrees should buy a dictionary.

 

This was my exact thought, although I pulled back as I've made enough controversial comments this week.

But seriously, that's what happens when you tell people to use any prop for any purpose. Perhaps use a disclaimer or an exception, because people will seriously test their limits when given permission like that.

 

Yeah, well according to the video's host, that was how it went. He wore a paper bag as a hat and people were able to use props in any way.

That's my exact thought though. He should've had exceptions such as "nothing sexual" because there are people who dream about doing sexual acts with celebrities

 

if shia was a girl what would you say

 

Then I'd still stand by what I say. I don't discriminate by gender on this issue.