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How to be free of PMO forever!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by youliveyoulearn, Jan 21, 2018.

  1. youliveyoulearn

    youliveyoulearn Fapstronaut

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    Did you know that the sun may be older than earth, but the water we drink it's older than the sun?

    Exactly, you didn't know that random fact before I told you.

    This might not make any sense, but let me explain:

    Imagine your life if you would never find your about porn, everything would be normal, no addiction, no depression, no lack of confidence, no anxiety.

    Then what you have to do?
    FORGET IT!

    How? As simple as that, you have to trick your mind that porn never existed and doesn't exist anymore. It just wasn't invented.

    It's the battle between you and your mind, you can trick it easily, convience yourself that porn was never invented and you'll take back the control of yourlife.

    Let's say I never ate sugar in my life, I wouldn't know how it tastes. Will I be tempted to eat sweets? probably no

    Please just reflect a bit on what I wrote, it will make sense, the easiest way is to forgive yourself and forget porn was ever invented, lock this in yourmind.
     
  2. Its interesting idea.thx for tip
     
  3. Mr.iwantsleep

    Mr.iwantsleep Fapstronaut

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    Quite interesting, I'll try this out!
     
  4. *Harsh55*

    *Harsh55* New Fapstronaut

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    Pretty interesting thanks for the tip :)
     
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  5. youliveyoulearn

    youliveyoulearn Fapstronaut

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    What's porn lol? I don't know this word, but I have some dreams I can wait to accomplish.
     
  6. elevate

    elevate Fapstronaut

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    If porn never existed, then neither does the pain and regret of living that lifestyle.

    The negative experiences of your past can be just as important as the positive experiences.

    It shaped who we are and got us to where we are now. Porn exists in reality and reality is what we need to develop.

    Trick your mind and create a fantasy world where porn doesn't exist all you want, but I'd rather be able to face the issue and say no for real. It's not something to be erased. It's something to overcome, learn, and grow from.

    This is equivalent to saying rejection doesn't exist therefore I have unlimited confidence. Tricks don't last. Real change comes from the uncomfortable process of growth.
     
  7. You’re fooling yourself
     
  8. Ongoingsupport

    Ongoingsupport Fapstronaut

    There's a difference between the memory of an event which you can recall, and memory of a way of feeling and the emotional state, the hook etc. You can have the first kind without the second, but forgetting the first but still having the hook would be a bad idea because you would also have forgotten the lessons and skills learned about how to deal with it.
     
  9. Although I get the idea of what you're trying to say, it's very difficult for some people to completely let go of the idea of it. It's like saying you never lost your arm in an accident but in reality it's still not apart of your body. I agree with you on how we all need to think about what pornography has done to us, but never forsake it.
     
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  10. Cool idea man...
    The things which helped me a lot with pmo addiction recovery is to absolutely not see it as an option anymore.. the option is just of the list. Before there was always the thought, maybe this or that, what if..? Now my mindset is, whatever i do, whatever happens.. pmo is not an option.. haha
     
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