Flatine = COMPLETE loss of urges/cravings or libido ?

If you're not watching porn or masturbating, then you're doing it right.

 

If you are having natural urges then...that is excellent. It is healthy and normal. Keep porn out of your mindset.

 

There is no formula that works for everyone. Just stick to your goals and when youryo successful you're doing it right.

 

No worry I have it same way, we are not all same, every one have own journey.

Honestly, I love flat line.

 

Since making the decision the urges have stopped pretty much completely for me. I wasn't experiencing any sort of lust for a long time though, porn was just a thing to do "play a video game", "watch shit on youtube", "fap to porn", "eat some junk food"....so it was like i was erasing the possibility of becoming aroused by fapping it away before it could become a force.

Nine days in and I'm beginning to feel faint stirrings of something resembling desire. If anything I'd just like a nice hug, some snuggle time with someone on the sofa with a movie or someone to hold at night. Fapping had largely removed those thoughts, so I'm crossing fingers that my brain rewires itself and I can form more constructive needs, habits and wants.

So to sum up: personally I am looking forward to my libido returning and hope to have the strength to use it appropriately and avoid a relapse. I know I am new to this, but thus far feeling confident.

Wish you all the best.

 

Not everyone gets a flatline. I didn't. I just got loads of mood swings and stuff.