I had sex with a prositute for the second time

It depends on what you consider to be downsides obviously there are emotional and psychological consequences which may not be apparent immediately but could prove to be harmful in the long run. How did you feel after u did it?

 

It depends on what your personal goals are, what are trying to achieve.

 

Well I would aim for cleaning your mind and body. Paid sex is not the best way to have intimacy, also your sowing shame and regret for yourself. Prepare a plan/list for how to cope. Excersise is always good but you will know what works for you. Lastly commit. The people here are amazing use them, use the forums tools. Best of buddy, stick with it.

 

That's your call, part of what you seek honesty is needed. Honesty to yourself.

 

What makes u think oral is disgusting (Just generally asking ) is it the look of the girls anatomy was it the lack of hygiene was it cause u had no feelings for her

 

If your goal is simply to not masturbate then its not if it the full hard mode then yea it is

 

I do not understand how you think anyone can answer this for you. If I went to a prostitute it would be so far beyond a relapse that my counter would be the least of my worries. But I am not you. We just cannot answer as you. We can tell you what we think, and as you've heard most of us cannot treat this as OK. But do you?

 

What? you cannot expect.... for a christ sake, you're paying woman to fuck you, of course you can expect, if you want to think like that get a wife or make that prostitute your wife, I don't care.

Well it's masturbation, only that you rub your benis into vagina, not to your hand... And you know what the effects are

 

i have never been with a prostitute, but maybe i'm just too Young to "understand"... I think you write here for avoid your guilty. Sometimes when we do "bad things" or not moral, we feel guilty and we react in different ways. maybe you wold like to be punished or feel less guilty. My advice is to take your time and try to be honest with yourself. How do you felt the moment after the sex with her?

I can't leave without saying that i love oral sex, but i have to say that she must be very clean and i prefer clitorid because vagina's liquid is not so tasty.... anyway the main reason for making oral with her is make her "happy", if you have a parthner consider that she could like it a lot.

 

No its not porn. Like I said it's not a healthy nurturing supportive relationship either. So is it a life style I would recommend. No. But that was not my call, There is also a risk of exposing yourself to another sexual dependancy. Though it's popular in mgtow for the hassle free intimacy. So I would say largely depends of the individual and their lifestyle.

 

well said