Too late or should I give it a try?

Hi!

I have always been a person that do not get in contact with new people too easy. I have had almost the same friend my entire life (and I am happy for that). Still it would be awesome to get to know more people and talk more to new people.

The last 2-3 years I have done some climbing as a hobby and there has been a girl that I see there very often. She seems to have a great personality, and I would really like to talk to her. I was about to give up, but now at least I have starting to look more at her when we pass by, and she is giving me big smiles everytime. Should I try get in contact with her? Or do you guys think it is to late?

Thanks! It is okey to tell me that it may be too late if you think so, I just want opinions!

Maybe it is stupid to ask, but it is always nice to see the views from other people in my opinion!

Good luck with your figths!

 

Thanks for the reply! Yeah, I know where to work and that is atleast a step in the rigth correction. I won't stress to much about this girl, but if she starts giving me more signs, I may do something simple talking if the moment fits.

Thanks again, will start try be open towards new people and be more intrested to know then instead of judging and being "afraid"!

 

Wow! I love how you describe the passion part, and also wow! The last part you wrote. I am waiting too much, that is a huge part of my problems. I like to feel comfortable so I have not taken many chances. Time to change that!

Wow! Thanks to both of you! There is actually not much to worry about. Either it goes great or it is a no. A no is nothing to worry about actually because then I can move on.

What you wrote guys are really motivating!

 

I did it! And it worked out great! Thanks to all of you! :') Fuck my problems, won't let them beat me!

 

Damn! What happend was great, and I am still very happy. Just one problem. It looks like that we are going to meet this week (which is great), but I am feeling nauseous all the time (I am very nervouse I guess). I feel like I am going to vomit just thinking about her (not in a bad way about her, lol).

Someone with any tips, or just to man up(!)? I have my whole life been afraid of relationships etc. And I don't really know why, it is just become part of me. I guess thats a war I have to figth! Even tho, any tips for the next meeting? I am afraid everything will be akward and we won't have something to talk about and we will just be the silent.

Thanks for the support guys!

Will tell the story later this week hehe Too many thougths spinning around in my head now as you can see .

 

Thanks for the support guys! We talked again while doing some workout beside the climbing. We did not go together there, but we met because of random timing.

She seemed a bit more focused about the workout then wanting to talk, and I guess that is okey. So I figured out that I should not disturbe her too much, but atleast I spoke to her a bit to show some intrest. The only thing bothering me is that she seemed a lot more into me the first time, even after we talked. When she walked away after the first meeting she was like "I hope to see you soon/See you soon!, with a big smile". She was even smiling the whole time after we talked that they when i saw her.

Yesterday when I talked to her, she may be very focused while climbing and working out which I think is great! Just that I am not really sure if I will just bother her if we talk again.

So I figure out that I won't think too much about this anymore, I will just see what happens the next times I see her. Maybe we catch up a great conversation again, who knows!

Again, thanks. And will work on not thinking on her as "the one" as you said @Merovingian , even tho she got this great energy with her that I just love hehe. But I guess there are more people with the same energy! So let just time show and not care too much.



To tell the story from first time without going too much into details:
I was just getting ready to do my last climb and she came up to me asking for help. I ofcours helped her out and we got into a conversation where both seemed to have fun and laughed a bit.

We talked about diffrent intrest regarding sports etc, because it looks to me that we are both very intrested in workingout and climbing. After a longer conversation she had to go and said as I wrote above "see you soon" or something in that way. And she was smiling all the way when leaving.

Yesterday when I met her, she seemed in one way happy too meet me, but I felt like she was too into her workout etc that she did not want to talk at that moment. So I did not talk too much.

I will just let time show and not care too much.

 

Thanks a lot again! I am really thankful for all your tips!

I will try!

Only one thing I am a bit afraid of is that if I get a no from asking her out, I may have to see her everyday knowing that. On the other hand, why should just seeing her hurt me? It is not like it will get worse because of that.

Will try to get rid of "scary thougths".

Thanks again! Will do my best!