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Which is the most destructive between M and P ?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by FrenchWinner, Feb 22, 2018.

  1. FrenchWinner

    FrenchWinner Fapstronaut

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    I'm 19 and I have PIED problems although i didn't see porn that much in comparison with many guys on this forum (maximum 1 a day and 5 minutes). I was not addcited to P and during my M sessions i even prefered to M to my own fantasizes and girls i know.

    However I Mo ed since the age of 10 3 times a day. A day when i was punished to stay at home in my bedroom i mo'd 11 times (i know it's crazy but i had NOTHING to do).
    My MO did'nt last more than 5 minutes and i didn't edge. Yet i didn't watch porn i imagined during my fapping sessions hardcore sex about real girls i know such as classmates.

    Do you think "Fantasizes"-induced-erectyle dysfunction be real ?
     
  2. Yes, I think so. I can see a scenario here where you become so dependent on fantasies that being with real women will never be enough for you.
     
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  3. Victorious21

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    arrête P à vie et M pendant un mois ou deux, ensuite tu reprendras M que quand tu seras en erection total et avec seulement deux toi mec
     
  4. BoxyGirl

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    The real issue isn’t the use of P unfortunately when it comes to erectile dysfunction. The truth is that your hand does a far better job at providing friction than a vag could ever hope to achieve, and as a result if you let things continue like this you may find that when the time comes you won’t be able to enjoy the real thing
     
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  5. Lonewolfpt

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    I believe P is worse. But because i never suffered from problems like PIED i dont really have the experience to be sure
     
  6. Hillario

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    Hmmm, In my opinion and case, m.. ion is worse then p...
    I found very hard to stop watching, and m.. ion I am clean 70+ days.
    P... is everywhere today in music, movies, almost it is impossible to avoid naked bre..., as.., vag ...
    But m... ion is battle with yourself.
    When you win, it gives you better selfrespect, and you become more honest with yourself, you don t need to hide bad habit, it disapear.
    Set in your head that you ll quit m..ion, and even if you fail ok, but if you have in had that you ll quit, one day you ll quit.

    Hope you understand my english, if you have question I ll give answer as best as I can.
     
  7. I have to agree. Sadly. But eventually I came to enjoy masturbating more than actual sex, even though sex was often what I fantasised about. I had a difficult time staying erect during sex with my girlfriend.
    Perhaps even worse, is that you can keep masturbating when you're not fully hard, but sex is almost impossible when you're only half way there.
     
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  8. Edging is the absolute worst for me. Hours long sessions of looking at porn or psubs with that constant drip drip drip of dopamine? If I could PMO in five minutes, I'd probably prefer that to the damage I've done via long viewing sessions.
     
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  9. FrenchWinner

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    I'm 19 and I have PIED problems although i didn't see porn that much in comparison with many guys on this forum (maximum 1 a day and 5 minutes). I was not addcited to P and during my M sessions i even prefered to M to my own fantasizes and girls i know.

    However I Mo ed since the age of 10 3 times a day. A day when i was punished to stay at home in my bedroom i mo'd 11 times (i know it's crazy but i had NOTHING to do).
    My MO did'nt last more than 5 minutes and i didn't edge. Yet i didn't watch porn i imagined during my fapping sessions hardcore sex about real girls i know such as classmates.

    Do you think "Fantasizes"-induced-erectyle dysfunction be real ?
     
  10. FrenchWinner

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    Sorry i copied my first message unwillingly

    Indeed i had my first sexual experience 2 mounths ago where my partner humiliated me and got me off of her flat beacuse i couldn't get it up. After that i couldn't get it up even with porn tht's how i discovered NoFap. im in a 54 days hardcore mode streak and i tested yesterday i could erect with just touch and i couldn't i don't know what to do

    Moreover yes my sexual fantasizes when M were hardcore it was a porn moovie in my head. And OverM led me to M even when i was 100% soft after several sessions. However i recovered my erections after 2 days of no M when i had to. I think i always had Morning wood but my spontaneous erections were very scarce (in fact maybe i didn't notice them beacause i didnt care and maybe with the age it is less frequent) i don't even remember when i had my last one but i'm sure i got one before i was 15.

    What do you think of my situation? Could a horrible first sexual experience make so much damage on my erections even after a significant streak ?
     
  11. Hillario

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    Ok, you should calm down, try not to think about it, after some period you'll get over it.

    Maybe try with meeting new girls, for example in shoe store, clothes store, just chat with them, ask about clothes, shoes
     
  12. FrenchWinner

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    I know i shouldn't panic but my story is very weird.
    I knew escalation in P use like YBOP affirm to be a tolerance phenomena but in the meantime in preferred often M to my own fantasizes. Infact, i used hardcore porn when i was exhausted by over M and soft... I don't see a guy like me on this forum where everyone has almost the same pattern.
     
  13. Hillario

    Hillario Fapstronaut

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    E man, ok, I read few times your post. This is why this forum is existing. Do you go out, training some sport, do you have any hobbies?
     
  14. john27

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    P, because just watching it is harmful and it turns into a habit before you know it.

    M in itself isn't that bad, but when you need P to M it becomes a problem.

    When I'm PMO'ing I'm looking up P all day long with no intention to M, it's just to get a quick dopamine rush or a quick edging session.
     
  15. Hillario

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    E john27, very interesting, so you are opposite of me, for example I am 90+ days without ''m'', but I watch ''p'' maybe 3 times a week (+ - 1 time).
    I have questions:
    - can you explain ''it's just to get a quick dopamine rush or a quick edging session.''?
    - how to make post on nofap?
     
  16. Hillario

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    E FrenchWinner, sorry for asking some questions on your post, I answered on your post as well
     

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