I relapsed and made another sissy hypno mistake, what's going on?

Maybe the best thing for you to do would be to slowly reduce the amount of time you masturbate, like for example instead of jerking it once a day, do it once every other day, and then slowly do it less and less until you no longer need it. However, I would recommend jerking off without the porn, in order for you to get rid of all the hypnotic suggestions put into you. On the subject of your anxiety, I recommend that you just do something you are afraid of doing. If you do it, you will probably see that you made it worse in your head than it actually is. Once you see that, you will gain confidence and have less anxiety.

 

You can't go wrong with doing more things. In my freshman year I was in almost no after school clubs, but this year I am in every club I can fit into my schedule, and I am so much happier than last year!

 

That would be a very good idea!

 

Ok, well then you can use my advice to your advantage. Don't make my mistake of not joining clubs, be sure to get out there and do whatever it is you are passionate for. Also, don't believe the B.S. that you have to be a rebellious teen, or that you have to fit in. Be yourself, and be the best damn version of yourself that you can be!

 

When did I say that anxiety and addiction are permanent?

How can I "remember" something you haven't even shared?

Of course you do. He's telling you it's no big deal and giving you license to not feel guilty about not trying hard enough. I'm not surprised that you would rather hear that advice than mine. That advice won't help you with your gender confusion, though. I thought that was what you wanted help with here, but it seems like you just want to be validated and given an out to not have to try something that's hard.

Okay, first of all, I'm not a guy.

Secondly, you don't know anything about me... if you think this is my mindset, then it's clear you haven't read anything I've ever said outside of this thread, because I preach the exact opposite of that regularly. It would benefit you to refrain from making assumptions about an entire group of people without knowing them at all.

I never said I was? Do I need to remind you that YOU posted this thread, asking for advice? And now you're annoyed that people are giving you advice, because we aren't professional psychologists? What was the point of posting this thread then?

I'm not asking you to. I'm asking you to get serious about something that many many people here have found success in.

Okay... I'm confused. You've spent this entire paragraph saying how wrong I am and complaining about my advice, and then you say the exact thing I've been saying all along. So what is there to argue about? This is literally all I've been saying... that you need to get up and fight and be serious about this. You agree with that, so what's your beef with me?

Well NOW you say that. How is anyone here supposed to magically know that? You wrote this thread about hypnotic sissy porn, and you've posted other threads about this type of stuff messing with your mind and causing gender confusion. None of that has anything to do with not having friends, it has to do with porn... on a porn addiction website... so naturally I assumed we were talking about porn, not about not having friends.

Anyway, if that's your real problem, then I wish you the best in figuring that out and I'm glad that you know what the core of the issue is. That will make it easier to fix. But porn is definitely still a problem, obviously, because not having friends doesn't make people confused about their gender identity. So as you agreed, you need to be serious about that as well, if you want to figure out if those feelings are more than just a result of porn use.

 

I'm sorry if my advice is too harsh for you. I do admit, I'm a pretty blunt person, sometimes to a fault. I don't want to discourage you. Quite the opposite, actually, I'm trying to help you. I hope you can see that someday, if not now. You seem to agree with the message of what I've been saying though, so I'm still not even sure what the disagreement was about in the first place. But I wish you the best.

 

I don't understand how you came to that conclusion from anything I said. I definitely didn't say anything like that at all. If that were the case, it would be pointless to tell you to even try if you can't possibly succeed. The only reason I advise you to get serious about this is because I know it can work, and I've seen so many success stories here.

Anyway, I appreciate the apology. I would recommend you read some stories in the success stories section of the forums, to see for yourself! I hope everything works out for you.