1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Pain & almost relapsed

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Guyseekinghelp, Mar 2, 2018.

  1. Guyseekinghelp

    Guyseekinghelp Fapstronaut

    19
    1
    3
    Have been getting slight pain in my balls and now abdomen. I am 10 days in. Is it normal?
    I almost came dangerously close to relapsing thinking that a little bit of edging will probably help it.
     
  2. NF_Doit

    NF_Doit Fapstronaut

    29
    16
    3
    Edging will get it worse. Read about healing so called "blue balls".

    If pain will not go away, contact doctor. In my case I had to take antibiotics. To be fair I'm not sure was it a problem, it might be also spine problem, but after 2 months of curing, finally I'm getting fine.

    And what's most important - don't panic. It might pass away, but also stress can cause such pains!
     
  3. @NF_Doit is right, edging (masturbating without cumming) will make it worse! Edging is a bad idea all the way round. :(

    What you have is "blue balls". It is likely that you are not getting rid of sexual thoughts and images when they come to mind. You may even be indulging in sexual daydreaming. This communicates to your brain something sexual is about to happen but then, nothing happens. As a result of vasocongestion, you get that testicle pain (and sometimes abdomen).

    To give yourself some relief, bringing blood pressure down in the testicles will help. A cold shower with plenty of cold water directed onto your scrotum will help. Or you could simply dangle your plums in some cold water. Or, wrap a block of ice from the freezer and hold it to your scrotum for a few minutes. CAUTION: make sure it is wrapped though. Alright? :eek:
     
  4. Haroon226

    Haroon226 Fapstronaut

    22
    27
    13
    i would advise drinking plenty of water. try and drink atleast 8 glasses a day. i try and drink a glass atleast every hour. hopefully a regular pee stream will take pain away. if i were you i would avoid any edging/playing with penis. you will most likely get carried away and all those sex thoughts will get into your mind and you might play with yourself all night.
     
  5. Guyseekinghelp

    Guyseekinghelp Fapstronaut

    19
    1
    3
    Shit! I relapsed today. I woke up feeling more depressed than usual and then felt like my p**** was like dead. Out of fear I somehow got carried away to check if I have regained sensitivity or not and binge-relapsed. Still it didn't make me feel any better. I guess my flatline has started. I need to be less anxious, stressed and depressed and be happy from within. I guess that will make my recovery faster.
     
  6. Gooding

    Gooding Fapstronaut

    Are you playing with it, but not orgasming? Is that what you consider no MO?.... If yes you need to stop that. Zero stimulation to your penis is the only way.
     
    Guyseekinghelp likes this.
  7. Guyseekinghelp

    Guyseekinghelp Fapstronaut

    19
    1
    3
    No I did orgasm.
    Sometimes I do apply lavender and olive oil @Gooding
     
  8. Gooding

    Gooding Fapstronaut

    My point was, if you want to do no pmo, then don't even play with your penis. And do not watch, listen, imagine things that causes a boner. Otherwise blueballs would happen.
     
    Guyseekinghelp likes this.
  9. Guyseekinghelp

    Guyseekinghelp Fapstronaut

    19
    1
    3
    Yup brother. I get your point
     
  10. ricoelyes

    ricoelyes New Fapstronaut

    4
    1
    3
    i have the same problem and i start working on somthing cool,it comes when your brain start thinking about sex and sexual desires you just swap it to somthing more beneficial, just try and keep in your mind that no one will make you a better person if you don't do it yourself,wish you all luck.
     
  11. Legion7

    Legion7 Fapstronaut

    147
    100
    28
    Day 23. My junk has been sore off and on for a week. Sucks, but seems "normal" for the withdrawals for some of us. I actually hurt worse after relations with the wife last weekend. That sucked.
     

Share This Page