Why do women wear tight leggings ?

He only reads and comprehends what he wants to, at this point it's useless as you'll be arguing for the rest of your life at this rate.

 

This reply was for @IR254...i don't know why you are always against my beliefs..read the post for whom i have written that.

 

Your concept of some men is false.

 

True, I didn't see that and thought it was for me. I never said I was against all your beliefs, you literally asked why women wear leggings and I told you why before it turned into this shit show.

 

I am talking about what happens in my place where i live. Every men hear are hungry wolves and even these so called real women know that. Rapes happen here more often. Then also, these girls try to expose themselves. Not only these men but any self controlled boy will loose their control when they see everything transparent. And majority of women here are like that and this is creating a big problem in the life of rebooters like me, maybe for non-addicts, it might be normal. I am not saying that women must not have their freedom of clothes, but what kind of clothes are this man..bra-less tops and tight leggings...i don't think this is a fashion trend. And how can these girls be comfortable when these many men stare at them just becoz they are wearing some stupid clothes. This was the thing i was explaining to @Sarah Walker, but i think she meant something else becoz of my bad english.

 

Forcing my opinion on women. What? Ok..wear whatever you want ..the thing addicts like me know very well that nobody wants our progress in this world and we know how to deal with it. And yes, same goes to you, its only me talking politely here but not getting the same response from you all and making me to believe what you all believe. It's ok though, i didn't expect much.

 

If apparently men and boys there are so heavily influenced by what a woman wears they can't 'control themselves', and it's spurring a supposed 'rape culture' as you say, I think your country or city has a bigger issue than what they're wearing...

 

I'm EXACTLY the same. One time, I went to my barbers & there is a hot woman working there.. She was wearing these healed trainer things, I don't know what to call them... but they kinda looked sexy... Next minute once I got home I'm searching for girls wearing them LOL it's crazy.

I've done it several other times with all different other types of clothing too...

But now I am trying to put much more emphasis on their face rather than their bodies. Obviously I will glance, but I will leave it as a glance - for now it's working at least, and I feel I am connecting much better with people because of this too. Maybe they get a "surprise" that somebody is actually giving them so much eye contact for a change but the conversations with them definitely seem more energetic - as if they really want to chat with me instead of thinking I'm just some perv.

 

Yes but for most of human history worn by men same with knee high boots ..

I am not saying you are doing this intentionally...but I was just thinking.. why am I reading this threat.. is it because it's my number 1 turn on and I am psubbing?

 

yeah I have this problem too. and I think trying to mimic or transfer or fetishize a piece of material let to some other problems..
I play a game with myself, I try to 'score' how many women i can avoid looking at. I tell myself that when I look down, I am being submissive and showing how it is controlling me and when i avoid it I am becoming more confident and more in control of my actions...
Try first with ones you know are easy - but eventually it feels like you 'won' when you don't look.

 

Yeah I have no problem with that though, cause if a man wants to even wear tights or whatever he wants go for it! I don't judge and if that's what he wants to wear there's no problem with me.

 

I think men can con and should control themselves. However, I think it is highly unrealistic to say that some (not all) women intentionally dress in a manner to attract sexual attention - they may not want more than to be admired, but they are intentionally trying to evoke attention.
I always hear women just dress x way for themselves- and I think that simply isn't true ( i think women are also highly competitive this way and dress to out-dress each other with expensive handbags, for example which men don't care about)

 

There were practical reasons for these types of clothing, (high boots and leggings) when men wore them, and there may be reasons now - which may be reasons men and women wear them... and look attractive - a woman in a riding outfit can look elegant, attractive and alluring... but I was just thinking this for example - girls school uniforms have been highly sexualized and I think that's a shame.. but is it, at least for practical reasons, would it be a good idea for young girls to wear something else- it is shame they would have to - and that goes back to the core of the sexualization that was part of an ill thought out 'social revolution' in the mid 20th century but at what point do we have to be practical.

For example Sarah Walker I assume you are a woman, if you went to a middle east country would you change how you dressed and for example wore a headscarf? I hope so, because otherwise your life would be in danger. I am not saying that's right but that's reality.

 

That right there is the definition of a beta cuck. You are fighting your own nature to attempt to superficially please others inconsequentially, and you are scared of hurting her feelings. Do better than that man. As long as you make no unwanted physical contact or ogle, you are fine.

Instead of avoiding looking at women, look at them as much as you want, but convey respect whilst doing so. Don't ogle the tits, but make eye contact, and convey to her that you respect her, and that you aren't an immature boy who needs blinders to control his actions. Nothing wrong with admiring.

 

i think you misinterpret what I am saying. I am talking about 'oogling' - when you have no intention of approaching or ever meeting a woman, and may not even want to. It has nothing to do with pleasing others, it has to do with learning self control and getting rid of unconscious habits to better focus the mind. If you are constantly scanning around looking for women your mind is not focused. Period.

This is completely different - approaching a woman whom I find attractive or just Platonic interaction with them, and yes as with all people eye contact and basic self respect/ confidence.