Sheer Clothing, Major Distraction

Sheer clothing, half-naked women, are a serious issue for us IMO. Even if I am strong, it's a huge mental distraction.

I work in a mall that caters to women's clothing and what not, I work in the food court and I am constantly bombarded by half naked women once the weather warms up. There are way too many women wearing literally half a shirt. I mean that literally. I see usually, in non-winter months (and even the winter ones) women wearing sheer clothing, what's the point of even wearing a shirt if I can literally see through your translucent shirt and your skimpy bra, it's absolute insanity.

It's distracting, and there's no way for me to avoid erections from it. Which is also super annoying and distracting, trying to make drinks fast with an erection. It just upstarts way too many sexual feelings that I have to completely ignore.

 

Honestly I was mostly just ranting, and I don't mean dressing attractive. I mean dressing half-naked. Looking for a new job isn't really that simple, nor beneficial. I didn't say it was a drain on my willpower, more so that it's annoying and distracting in general.

 

No, it's okay Phadreous. It's not so much a sexual issue for me but, if I am already feeling low or disconnected, it can bring up feelings too. The thought that, hey, I'd like a beautiful woman too, can be hard to avoid when you are surrounded by beautiful women but in reality you know you wouldn't be attracted to them on an personality level. I know how you feel, I think with effort you will reach that reboot, it will be a tough journey but you will do it.

LiiD overall yes, I'm a hard worker and I pride myself on a fast pace and being able to multi-task and always improve myself when working. I would say my work ethic is one of my strongest and most visible positive points. It's really more of an issue when I'm letting myself mire in negative feelings towards the external, like I can't get a woman for myself, I'll never meet someone beautiful and someone who understands me. It's one of those lies that addiction seeds in.