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Should I relapse ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Amarion, Mar 13, 2018.

  1. Amarion

    Amarion Fapstronaut

    I know the thread seems to be paradoxal but I'm currently doubting and I've got some questions
    This Sunday I have edged (Only M). I'm well aware that edging is relapsing so I have basically reset my counter but I don't know if I should "fully" relapsing. I'm currently feeling very weird and one article declares that edging is worse than doing the act fully. I don't know what to do, I'm lost to be honest and I'm kinda depressed right now...
    What do you guys think ?
     
  2. It'sBlue

    It'sBlue Fapstronaut

    My honest opinion is that you should just reset your counter and carry on. People may be comparing those to things and saying that is worse or that is less bad or whatever. But it's still a comparison, one or another, not both of them together.
    Mathematically speaking that would be 1+2 or whatever, you get me?
     
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  3. It'sBlue

    It'sBlue Fapstronaut

    It's all about not feeding the same pathways that led you to all of this. If you think that MO'ing one time will be more beneficial in your situation and then reset your counter, it's ok. But avoid watching P if you can, man.
     
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  4. Amarion

    Amarion Fapstronaut

    I see. I'll just continue my streak. It's just the fact that my testosterone and all are deranged but MO-ing won't help you're right. I just hope I'll recover soon !
     
  5. It'sBlue

    It'sBlue Fapstronaut

    You will, buddy! Just trust the process!
     
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  6. Amarion

    Amarion Fapstronaut

    Thanks for your help !
     
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  7. I suggest you keep your hand off your d**k. You shouldn’t be edging or Ming and the only reason you even posted this is b/c your Addict Brain wants a justification to O.

    So just stop, reset, move on.
     
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  8. SuperLulox

    SuperLulox Fapstronaut

    Don't. It will only make things worst, and the point of having a counter is to make things better, if some counter technicality makes you relapse, then something is wrong. It's just a number
     
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  9. Sorry if this is making it sound like an absolute majority, but don't do it. Everyone does this for their own reasons, and has their own boundaries. Don't go pushing those boundaries and you should be fine.
     
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  10. Celibacyoneer

    Celibacyoneer Fapstronaut

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    RUN FROM PORN LIKE FROM PLAGUE! RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!!
     
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  11. Amarion

    Amarion Fapstronaut

    Thanks for your help guys ! I won't do it, it will make things worse... You are all right thank you !
     
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  12. Wolves

    Wolves Fapstronaut

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    Just carry on and try not to go into a full on relapse. I've been in the exact same position as you. A relapsed always makes it worse and always indefinitely lead to a binge
     
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  13. Amarion

    Amarion Fapstronaut

    Did you recover fastly without relapsing ?
    I'm on day 3 and feeling a lot better
     

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