I don't know what to do anymore...

I'm not expert of sexual staff but I think you first need to have a self confidence of everything in your body because you didn't creat yourself,god did so we all need to appreciate that and don't forget what we were watching porn was all fake and there was nothing real.
I don't recommend any of these pills so you need to continue fighting and fighting to be able see the differences and I assure you they will.
Don't feel bad for relapsing my friend because every man does but they stand up right up,
You are the man dude so good luck with your journey and we all are here for ya Man

 

Hey leemac
I'm not an expert either, but I am 57, I have had the occasional lack of erection and DE and PE. But I have never had a persistent problem. I've been with women, I've been with men. I've been married to both and when not, I've had lots of different partners.
My advice to you is under no circumstances should you attempt to change your penis size. The simple fact is, that none of these things make enough difference, and may cause long term damage, especially pumps.
BP is right, in the respect that we show up with what we have. As a guy who really likes penises, let me assure you that the size is only one aspect, and it's really not all that important. Also, you may be underestimating your size. There are plenty of sources where you can check out what average penis size is. Porn is the wrong place to compare yourself, if you think that your partner is disappointed with what you have, then you don't want to be with them anyway.
As far as the presence of an erection while you are having sex goes. It is not necessary. You can do lots of things without an erection, and if you stick with it and relax, and enjoy yourself, the erection will come. Do not worry or obsess about it. You are not a failure of a man if your penis doesn't always do what you want it to. There have been quite a few occasions where I began a sexual encounter with very little going on down there, only to have it come up eventually. And if it doesn't, there is always a next time. If there isn't a next time, it's not meant to be.
PS
Stay away from porn at all costs. It's not real, if you are a real man, you will find this out.

 

I feel your pain on relapsing. I am on day 1 myself, so I can relate in real time. That being said, I find that it is a lot easier to forgive yourself immediately, and find the things that you want to do, and find inspiring. If that means too much pressure for you, find a good, clean comedy video to watch and laugh your head off. Forget about your penis for a bit. Go and get some sunlight and some clean air in a park. Do something, just move. Through all of it, believe that you are capable of the greatest things that humanity has achieved. You are great beyond anything that you've ever believed in the past. You would crush all challenges without a second thought, if you truly knew how much you are capable of!

 

Don't be silly man... I assume you're from '93 right?

If you're in your 20s you don't have any physical problem, so even try to fix this problem with pills is like trying to add more gas to a tank with a hole, instead of fixing the hole.

You have to fix the hole, and that is changing your habits.

If you keep relapsing it is because you're not commited enough.

Being commited enough is saying "ok I want to M... INSTEAD I'm gonna go outside/jog/hit the gym/... EVEN if it's not as comfortable as staying in here and fap..."

Make a solid commitment and dont even think of taking pills at your age.

 

My best advice is to lay off the porn for a whole month and see what difference it will make. Most people feel quite different after 14days or so.

If resisting the urge is too difficult right now I highly recommend K9 Web Protection. Find their site, read through all of their testimonials, FAQs and info on how best to use it for yourself. It's working well for me. Good luck.

 

Stay away from sexual activity for a while should do you good.
Do research on everything porn addiction related etc.
Learn your body and know your triggers.

You can do it man, just get your mind into it! Mind over body.

 

Why I stopped watching porn | Ran Gavrieli | TEDxJaffa
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRJ_QfP2mhU

Check out this video it addresses some of the issues you're describing.

Best of luck!

- vM

 

Yeah, this seems like a good plan. You might find that you'll want to masturbate if you get bored (likely if you restrict your computer access!), so a further suggestion is to try and spend as much of your time as possible in places where you simply can't masturbate. Good luck man.

 

"I've tried everything and nothing helps. I'm at the end of my rope. Is there no one who can do anything for me? Isn't that the real question?

"The answer, thank God, is that Jesus Christ can and does. He acted to set things right in this life a contradictions, where I want to serve God with all my heart and mind, but am pulled by the influence of sin to do something totally different."--the book of Romans, 7:24-25

 

Bro porn is fake.. all of those porn stars have fake penises and boobies and wrecked vaginas. You are better than them all compiled. You should realized that those porn stars are immoral, nothing more than a defiler of their body. If it's only psychological and not physical and you should not waste your money with those viagras and other enhancers.

 

just lay off porn and MO for about a week or two, and your flacid size will get notably larger. it happened to me, and its great for the pants package look haha. though once you pmo a few times it will go back to being tiny again.

 

To avoid watching pornographic videos, you must already understand how it works. Men in particular, is more sensitive visualy than women. When you look at porn, what one sees stimulates the right hemisphere of the brain (imagination, desire). Being a mere spectator and not an actor leads to frustration and disappointment. In other words, watching porn is much more serious effects than masturbation and therefore a lower level of dopamine. The decrease libido because fantasy is not done but only watched.
When you masturbate, you think realize a fantasy but it is nothing. Because there is only you and your handkerchief. There is a lack, absence or just the fact of not having done something correctly for which it is due. Keep the fantasy. A fantasy is not only meant to be achieved, it is a sign of good sexual health. That's it. It should'nt be interpreted otherwise.
Look at the woman in a different way. Porn is not only degrading to women, but to human beings in general. Actors use all kinds of products, clothing, decorative features to keep you on the screen. But not only. Very often they filmed in close-up portion that will have the most impact on male display (you can guess what ...). But it's also the sound effects which will drive the focus on what you watch. Take a test. Watch a TV show without sound. Your eyes will be less focused on what you see.
And then voila. It's over you can not turn back. The trap was set from the beginning (close-up images on which the action will follow) and your brain has already registered. But you did not know.