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60+ of Porn Hidden messages And possible effects

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by whoami33, Mar 27, 2018.

  1. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

    Edit 2 : your more than welcome to add your own response be it another hidden message, agreeing with some messages, disagreeing with some adding a personal history, more details about a message or anything you just want to add.

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    my day counter says that im in day 57 of not using porn.
    after a while when your brain believes that porn is not an option anymore it starts to see the world more accurately, in the last week i made a list of some of Porn messages we may unconsciously absorb by watching porn. i dont know if they make sense to you and i think many of them wouldn't be clear for my 57 days ago self.


    note: finally after years maybe 10 years or more i just installed porn blocker on all of my devices with new email address, now my brain knows that if it finds a loophole in the blocker i would block that loophole instead of just fighting with urges and losing constantly, this alone helped to adopt to new situation faster.


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    Edit 1 : started to add some comments to some of hidden messages in my day 82 of NO P and 3 of NO M, also im reading he danced alone a free ebook about a sex addict, even thought im not a sex addict still find it interesting, some of comments maybe be affected because of me reading the book.
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    Edit 3 : i want to add some messages about fetish porn, dont want want to offend people with really having those fetishes but if the person just escalated to something more extreme because of the shock and novelty, reminding of these hidden messages help to return to his/her normal taste.

    im no expert in many of those fetishes so correct me if i'm wrong.
     
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  2. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

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    isnt it too boring to watch people getting to know each other, telling stupid things to each other and giving numbers, waiting for phone call or text message from him/her then dating for days or weeks and months till The day comes and none of them are that special looking ?.
    you probably skipped the interviews ( if you were not love addict, and also skipped each position after watching it for one minute most)

    yes it is boring because you are watching it, you have become just a voyeur. vision is your only scene involved, your not taking a part just watching, so lets make it a little bit more stimulating each time.
     
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  3. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

    False belief that you can passively get everything that meets your desire.
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    Not completely passive, but just typing some words and little bit of scrolling is more than enough.
     
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  4. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

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    it wouldn't even reach 1,000 views if it was about porn stars opening up and doing what felt good for themselves rather than what looked good for viewer.
     
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  5. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

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    you cant have sex, you just aren't in the mood and you are not acting like those who know sex, i've seen it dizillion times before, nope it wasn't like this.
     
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  6. diddykong

    diddykong Fapstronaut

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    You're absolutely right, porn does twist your views of sex, women and relationships. There is lots of peer reviewed information on the effects of porn here: https://fightthenewdrug.org/
     
  7. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

    (if you asked me in porn days who’s view is more important i would definitely say my own view but now its not just saying i do believe it )
     
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  8. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

     
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  11. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

    The belief that you need a hot girl in order to function normally in life, this alone puts women on pedestal and putting them on pedestal 1) makes you feel inadequate by yourself 2) objectifies them .

    someone with this believe wants to get girls like trophies, he does not wants to connect with them (telling himself :these are beta traits and for losers you should F**k them not connect with them) he wants to achieve them.

    its like masturbating with vaginas instead of hands, seems alot better than porn but still not fulfilling as real connection.
     
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  12. This touches me extremly, so true.
     
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    whoami33 Fapstronaut

     
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  15. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

    you constantly fool yourself, (she loves it, thats what good sex is, just once more ) so you may be willing to fool yourself in other areas life too.
     
  16. londonguy90

    londonguy90 Fapstronaut

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    I agree with all of this for me I dont see women normally anymore since porn just there to be conqured for year’s and often think no women can compete with the women in porn so don’t bother. Also I think women will all eventually cheat like in porn so why bother?
     
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  17. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

    (maybe this is why i see some having astonishing results in their first try and then slowly returning to struggle, and one thing more is that i used tools to help myself, with porn blockers i throw myself in to the storm without them it was like walking and deciding every moment that does it worth it ? with porn blockers i know if i reached porn and passed some blockers i can strengthen them instead of forcing my exhausted self more and more specially that i believed finally i would relapse and one relapse will cause another and i will be back in same place i have been )
     
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  18. whoami33

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    (when was the last time you watched a full 30+ minute porn clip without skipping ?
     
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  19. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

    you get used to be ignored and denied at becomes easier to live as an ignored and denied person rather than an active person,
     
  20. whoami33

    whoami33 Fapstronaut

    (creepy face of a drug dealer when trying to keep his/her victim addicted comes to my mind )
     
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