vergin 23 years old

Advice: the only one who really cares is you...not saying to sound harsh, but instead to take the pressure off. Go read a Cosmo (or similar magazine with sex stories) and modify/pawn orf one as you're own. Of course this may be a trigger.
Why do you honestly care if you are a virgin?(there are many reasons, but what is most important to you). When you figure this out you can build strategiss to address it.

Focus on enjoying intently the things you like,dont tie a concept that getting laid will help you get furfilled...it wont.

 

Just be yourself and work on improving yourself. Not every girl wants to be with a guy who rooted a dozen other women.

Also... Perhaps spend time with mates that have similar standards to you.

 

Most people are attracted to the popular thing, if someone else likes it it must be good. However I guarantee, a lot of women do not want to settle down with someone they view as a man-whore, Ive heard friends say even 5 sexual partners is too many.
Also you gotta stop comparing your self to others its a very poor negative habit. A little competition everynow and than is fine, but beating down on yourself is not.

Find ways to improve your confidence find things you achieve at and focus, girls are more attracted to confidence than most everything else.

 

Well I am sorry to hear youre stuck listening to your friends brag about sexual conquests. If that is frustrating you need to find a way to change your environment and that may need to go to the extend of branching out to meet new people.
No person you meet is gonna have the same view and mindset of what is logical as you, so experiment with social interactions. You gotta start by changing your personal perspective. For me I tried several books about social interactions, "the game", "Charisma Myth", "how to read anyone", sales books etc to improve myself when i was in a similar situation. You are young you have plenty of opportunities to reinvent yourself.

 

If they make fun of you because of it they obviously are not your friends. I have had friends who have had multiple histories with girls, still they don't talk or be cocky about that.

There are tons of people who are just no comfortable to talk freely about that with everyone if they don't share their friends with benefits together, while there are bunch of douchebags telling everyone their stories in that way hiding their real insecurities.

Be proud who you are and be a better man. There are always much deeper topics to have involved with your friends. If that is only topic they can discuss with you, I feel bad for them. And again - go for other friends.

Taking your virginity away won't make you any better than they are.

Being a better man results of being attractive. Play your cards right man.