Why can't I get aroused?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by NeverAroused, Apr 8, 2018.

  1. NeverAroused

    NeverAroused Fapstronaut

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    Hello!

    My name is Andy and I'm 28! At this point I am still a virgin. Last week I've met up with a woman and starting making out. It did nothing for me. I only had pre cum but no erection. I totally like this woman but I can't seem to get aroused/horny. Not even when I watch porn.

    I have been masturbating somewhere between the ages of 12 - 14. I'm not sure when. When I was 12, the internet was still sucky so I'm not sure if I started then. Mainly used TV to fap. Music videos and such on MTV (weird I know). Now I fap to porn, this has been going on at least from the age of 16.

    The last years it's usually just one time a day. Very few times 2-3 a day. Mainly at night.

    See but here is my problem: I don't get horny whatsoever. The last time I recall being horny was when I first discovered masturbating.

    Am I missing something? Was googling a bit.. Thought I had low T seeing I check some symptoms. No libido, no desire to have sex, can sleep for 12 hours, usually need more than 8 to feel rested, not much semen to be honest too. Got a waist too.

    Kinda at a lost her because I am going to see this woman again soon and she wants to have sex.. :') what do I do?

    Edit: I had lack of B12 last summer.. No idea if that matter though.

    2nd Edit: I basically fap for the feeling of an orgams, that few seconds.
     
    Last edited: Apr 8, 2018
  2. Lonewolfpt

    Lonewolfpt Fapstronaut

    The answer is simple: because you have been damaging your brain too much for too long associating orgasm/sexual energy to pixels in a screen.

    Solution? Stop masturbating and masturbating to P now. Engage in a healthy lifestyle. Educate yourself about the harms of porn addiction
     
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  3. NeverAroused

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    I did thought this could be it but still concerned that there may be something else. Currently on day 4 of no masturbating and porn :')
     
  4. Hey buddy I'm the same age as you. I noticed in the last couple of years I wasnt getting morning wood. I went from jacking off to porn a couple times a day to maybe jacking off once a week to no porn. Lately been waking up with a dick as hard as a teenagers! Also been eating a much better diet.
    It works!
     
  5. NeverAroused

    NeverAroused Fapstronaut

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    Yeah? Good for you Good a doc appointment see what he says
     
  6. Stevenmdot

    Stevenmdot Fapstronaut

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    Try eating a banana every morning and drink lots of water. I try to eat a handful of berries as well every day. I’m rock hard in the morning
     
  7. FormerFapaholic

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    Yeah, eating healthier foods can also enhance your libido. Fish, fruit and nuts are advised.
     
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  8. I also try to avoid fast food which can be tough.
    If it's late and I'm driving somewhere starving and I have to stop at McDonald's I try to get a grilled chicken and I have it without any sauces.
     
  9. Hatfuge

    Hatfuge Fapstronaut

    Read about the concept of flatline, it'll explain why your drive it low right now. it will most likely become better.

    Exercise, cold showers & meditation are also good ways of creating a more functional body.

    Good luck, I belive in you :)
     
  10. NeverAroused

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    Yes, I pretty much think it's my libido :') I can get hard by watching porn but I just never get aroused by it. Nor by touching a woman. I've met with one yesterday. The only way I got hard, and this is after taking viag, was when she physically played with my P. I did cum but I had to like push myself to get there know what I'm saying? She gave me a HJ :')

    Seriously.. at the soccer game, there was this girl sitting in front of us... she bended over to talk to the person sitting a row below her.. that ass.. I did nothing for me.

    sometimes I get it up in the morning, not always, if I have to pee then sure it goes up. I do get it up sometimes with porn though. But like I've said. Pretty much 0% arousal.

    Edit: also stopped drinking soda :') day 3 of that now.
     
  11. NeverAroused

    NeverAroused Fapstronaut

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    Got the blood results back. Everything is fine except for vitamine D. Even my test levels are normal. so... zinc and magnesium isn't going to help then
     
  12. present2015

    present2015 Fapstronaut

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    I had T level of 940 and free T of 15.
    Bit could not get it up or aroused, that is when I knew ot was on my brain...
     

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