Hello! My name is Andy and I'm 28! At this point I am still a virgin. Last week I've met up with a woman and starting making out. It did nothing for me. I only had pre cum but no erection. I totally like this woman but I can't seem to get aroused/horny. Not even when I watch porn. I have been masturbating somewhere between the ages of 12 - 14. I'm not sure when. When I was 12, the internet was still sucky so I'm not sure if I started then. Mainly used TV to fap. Music videos and such on MTV (weird I know). Now I fap to porn, this has been going on at least from the age of 16. The last years it's usually just one time a day. Very few times 2-3 a day. Mainly at night. See but here is my problem: I don't get horny whatsoever. The last time I recall being horny was when I first discovered masturbating. Am I missing something? Was googling a bit.. Thought I had low T seeing I check some symptoms. No libido, no desire to have sex, can sleep for 12 hours, usually need more than 8 to feel rested, not much semen to be honest too. Got a waist too. Kinda at a lost her because I am going to see this woman again soon and she wants to have sex.. :') what do I do? Edit: I had lack of B12 last summer.. No idea if that matter though. 2nd Edit: I basically fap for the feeling of an orgams, that few seconds.
The answer is simple: because you have been damaging your brain too much for too long associating orgasm/sexual energy to pixels in a screen. Solution? Stop masturbating and masturbating to P now. Engage in a healthy lifestyle. Educate yourself about the harms of porn addiction
I did thought this could be it but still concerned that there may be something else. Currently on day 4 of no masturbating and porn :')
Hey buddy I'm the same age as you. I noticed in the last couple of years I wasnt getting morning wood. I went from jacking off to porn a couple times a day to maybe jacking off once a week to no porn. Lately been waking up with a dick as hard as a teenagers! Also been eating a much better diet. It works!
Try eating a banana every morning and drink lots of water. I try to eat a handful of berries as well every day. I’m rock hard in the morning
I also try to avoid fast food which can be tough. If it's late and I'm driving somewhere starving and I have to stop at McDonald's I try to get a grilled chicken and I have it without any sauces.
Read about the concept of flatline, it'll explain why your drive it low right now. it will most likely become better. Exercise, cold showers & meditation are also good ways of creating a more functional body. Good luck, I belive in you
Yes, I pretty much think it's my libido :') I can get hard by watching porn but I just never get aroused by it. Nor by touching a woman. I've met with one yesterday. The only way I got hard, and this is after taking viag, was when she physically played with my P. I did cum but I had to like push myself to get there know what I'm saying? She gave me a HJ :') Seriously.. at the soccer game, there was this girl sitting in front of us... she bended over to talk to the person sitting a row below her.. that ass.. I did nothing for me. sometimes I get it up in the morning, not always, if I have to pee then sure it goes up. I do get it up sometimes with porn though. But like I've said. Pretty much 0% arousal. Edit: also stopped drinking soda :') day 3 of that now.
Got the blood results back. Everything is fine except for vitamine D. Even my test levels are normal. so... zinc and magnesium isn't going to help then
I had T level of 940 and free T of 15. Bit could not get it up or aroused, that is when I knew ot was on my brain...