How did you lost your virginity? (Trigger warning) (for those who totally committed X PMO only)

Not only that, I find the term demeaning. The word virgin makes me cringe, and I just call it 'inexperienced'

 

After all, when spring comes I should be more outgoing and staying away from porn. I need to get out more aside from being at work all day and socialize than being stuck in my room where I have the tendency to relapse.

(By the way, I live in the northeast and winter and the snow have stuck around for way too long)

 

I gotta get it into my head that real sex can't be as mind-blowing as porn wants you to believe

 

It can be with the right person, or better, if you're not mindfucked by porn. Its also not just the act of PIV...great sex is much more than that.

 

Did you ever find it?...sometimes you gotta retrace your steps

 

It's probably a lost cause XD

 

Yeah, considering I could have been laid by my ex if I truly fell in love with her and if she wasn't such a psycho LOL

 

True @Jct maybe want to add trigger warning to the tread title?

 

Some girls lose their virginity by riding horses or cycling but maybe the breaking of hymens doesn't count as losing your virginity.

 

You can find it again by drinking this drink:



Apparently, you can still buy Virgin Cola in Afghanistan, Bangladesh, France, Italy, Japan, Kosovo, Malta, Nigeria, China, Switzerland, and Tunisia.

 

Uh yeah, doesn't count.

 

Are you a doctor?...do you even know the first thing about women? (Cause I sure don't)

But the internet has information, here's some in a comedic format for those looking to understand the hymen

 

Considering @Jen@8675309 is a woman she probably knows a lot more about women than most guys on this forum.

 

Well the way I lost my virginity was not how I thought I would one day when I was in highschool a girl I kind of knew asked me what I was doing after school I told her I didn't have anything going on to much she told me to follow her after school to her house she said she wanted me to help her with moving something at her house she was the same age as me 18 and in the same grade senior year I didn't think she had any interest in me I thought she just wanted me to help her move something at her house nothing sexual , when I got to her house I seen her car was the only one there no parents , so I walked in a virgin I walked out ex virgin I would have never thought it would happen that way she was really into to me as soon as I enterted the house it was the best thing that ever happened to me after school and she didn't want a relationship she just wanted to hook up ,wow, just typing this brings a smile to my face

 

They never clarified what they actually meant by losing virginity really.

Here's one definition of virginity:

The state of being naive, innocent, or inexperienced in a particular context.

Here's something else written on the subject:

The definition of virginity is complicated, and it’s really up to you to decide what you believe. Some people don't even care what “virginity” means or think it matters. Stressing about whether you’re a virgin is way less important than how you feel about your sexual experiences.

I don't know how to respond to the question really. Surely you've lost your mental virginity if you've seen porn. You're sure not innocent or naïve if you've seen porn.