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Help me please

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Nojo_19, Apr 11, 2018.

Can anyone else not maintain an erection while lying on their back?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Nojo_19

    Nojo_19 Fapstronaut

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    I am on day 1 of NoFap, I joined because my erections are very weak and hard to maintain. I can’t even penetrate my girlfriend without flexing my penis very hard. I used porn and masterbated heavily since I was 13 I am 20 now. I am Very scared because when I lie on my back it is almost IMPOSSIBLE to achieve an erection or maintain one (20%) erect if that. I also think worrying plays a part in it as well especially since I have the common symptoms of venous leakage. But I am very healthy, I go to the gym 5x a week, and eat extremely well. So I’m going to start this journey, just very nervous I don’t want it to not work.
     
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  2. JustinX

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    I cant have erection from blowjob & missionary though. Doggy and on my back when girl riding me is the only one that works for me lately.
     
  3. Nojo_19

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    Is crazy man, what day are you on?
     
  4. changinguser

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    Hello and welcome to the community.
    What you describe is one of the most common effects porn. Now you noticed, but it can be changed. You'll have to abstain in order to change things. Keep your healthy life style with abstinence to porn. It will not only help you in that, you'll also feel with more energy and in a better mood. Good luck in your journey!
     
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  5. Nojo_19

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    Thank you so much, this gave me hope.
     
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  6. Nojo_19

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    It’s crazy man, my self confidence is low now, what day are you on?
     
  7. JustinX

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    Recent months I have been able to do only very short streaks 4-7 day, but when I did 45+ days long streak about year ago I was able to fuck again in any position and my erection absolutely rock hard. It just fucked up again when I returned to PMO.
     
  8. Nojo_19

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    So this shit really does work bro?
     
  9. JustinX

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    Yeah it really does but it will take more time than you expect and even though you will be able to get hard you are still not fully recovered. The best is to wait at least whole 90 days. Easier said then done.

    When I came here I had total PIED not able to get hard at all with crazy good looking girl from pub. We tried 5 times in 2 days and always epic fail from my side.
    After 45 days I have tested it (https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...great-success-2nd-round-great-disaster.70181/).
    I was rock hard but only first round, second round I was semi-hard, next day afterwards I was rock hard again. But I kept that streak only to day 70 thinking that it is good enough, and then PMO again. And after frequent PMO symptoms always returns - not as bad as at the beginning (total PIED) but only unable to get hard in some positions. 70 days were my longest streak, afterwards I have done about 2 separate 30 days long streaks but I always did either some PMO or hookup happy that my junk is working again that lead eventually to PMO never doing full 90 days and never properly get rid of it
     
  10. Nojo_19

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    Awesome man that is great to hear! You should be proud of your accomplishments, you gave me hope and made me feel better. I will stay in touch with you on my progress. Thanks man. Best of luck to you Justin
     
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  11. I know this is a late reply but I made an account just to respond.

    I have the same issue. 30days+ still have leakage every morning and unable to maintain erection while laying on back.

    This is some scary shit bro, I hope nofap helps heal this issue and its not more serious. Did you have any improvements over the last week?
     
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  12. Nojo_19

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    Hey man I actually do, I can achieve an erection while laying on my back, it’s not 100% but it’s for sure better than it was, I relapsed sadly and I am on day 5 but I get morning wood every morning. And my erections are slowly but surely coming back and getting harder. I’ve also realized when you think about your erection and feel on it, it’s 100% more likely and easier to lose it. Anxiety and insecurities play a big part to. Just try to relax and trust the process... kinda like the 76ers.... now look at them . We will get there.
     
  13. Chudmeister

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    I always had a problem getting one standing up, I've learned to stop playing with myself and now I don't have a problem maintiaining an erection standing or laying
     
  14. Nojo_19

    Nojo_19 Fapstronaut

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    Do you think this NoFap really works?
     
  15. Chudmeister

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    It does help, having someone to talk to about it, really helps. We all understand you when your SO doesn't. The real way to fight this is to fight your brain you have to set up security measures to keep yourself from what ever it is that's hurting you. For me it's my phone. I installed a disable incognito mode app so I can't hide it anymore then I use Norton app lock to lock me out of apps that can tempt me. And my wife has the only passcode. I lock myself out of the playstore, and settings
     
  16. Wow, that's good news. I'm still not getting much improvement, there's leakage pretty much every morning and erection while laying on the back is weak. Will update this thread if there's noticeable improvements.
     

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