Would you Consider Sex with a Prostitute a Relapse? (no PM)

Would you consider sex with a prostitute a relapse? (no PM, O allowed)

I live in a country where affordable prostitutes are easily available in big numbers. I never use the services of a prostitute when I'm sober, but sometimes if I'm out drinking and can't find a normal girl for the night, I'll take a hooker instead. It's not so much that I have a massive urge to have sex when I'm drunk (less so actually), but it's more for the next morning where I will be hungover and INCREDIBLY horny (used to masturbate like up to 15 times in one day when I'm hungover).

In the country where I live it's a bit of a different deal with prostitutes, as many of them are just "normal" girls making an extra income on the side. Some will do it 100% for a job while some actually like you if you're a good looking young guy. Therefore on occasion the sex feels barely different to that with a regular partner. For example sometimes they like to stay over the night and hang out with you the next day until you ask them to leave (without any extra charge).

Personally, I have a little mixed feelings about this. It's still a different feeling to having sex with a normal partner, as you don't really get a similar rewarding feeling with a prostitute (perhaps some shame as well). It kind of feels like using prostitutes is "masturbation", but using someone elses' body for it. What do you think? On the other hand, I've had really good sex with some prostitutes compared to some dates I've e.g. found off Tinder, where I wasn't really that much physically attracted to them.

Personally, I am more feeling towards restricting the use of prostitutes during a reboot as resorting to using one is perhaps just shows lack of self-control.

 

That's interesting thoughts. I just signed up for this forum and started, but I didn't realise that perhaps enjoying normal relationships is the main goal of most people over here? For me it's the opposite, I just broke up from a relationship of 3 years (that was boring), which was preceded by a boring relationship of 2 years. For my last girlfriend the issue was non-matching sex drives and we couldn't continue.

Since last week I'm single and it's a moment I've been waiting for a long time. My aim is not to start any "normal relationships" anytime soon, but to explore my sexuality and get different experiences as many different girls as possible while I'm young. I have a serious "phobia" of aging (I'm just 26) and waking up 50 years old, not able to find hot girls anymore and thiking, why did I spend my life in boring relatioships and not properly enjoy myself?

The reason I started nofap is just to enjoy normal sex more, because I've had a lot of trouble with this due to excessive death grip masturbation and porn. I want to be able to enjoy sexual relationships more in general, because I constatly think about it but when the moment comes it's not that enjoyable because porn has saturated by brain.

 

I am definitely not doing this, just doing no PM to fix my ability to enjoy sex. For the record, I cannot have babies because I had testicular cancer and I'm on hormone replacement therapy. All my respect to those doing full no PMO but personally I don't believe abstaining from sex is good.

That's cool! For me normal sex is sex with two consenting individuals with no financial transactions involved. I have done some thinking about this and decided that using prostitutes is not in my agenda and I will stop that together with PM. Not that I've done it a lot really, just a few times in my life when I go out drinking.

That's also a good point, I might be better off single. However, I feel that my relationships were just boring because I jumped into them too fast without truely having a good connection with my partners. For my first girlfriend, I was a virgin and vey unexperienced, but I didn't really find her so attractive which killed the relationship. For my second one, she was very attractive but our sex drives didn't match. Basically she would only want sex once a week or less (and still barely interested) while for me I want it all the time. I ended up feeling very unwanted all the time and just fantasising about other girls who are more up for it. Seeing my partner enjoy the sex is incredibly important to me.