Ass fetish problem. Any advice?

No! Nobody has the same problem. I mean, ass? What the hell, man!? Why would a man be looking at a girls butt? Beats me.

I've heard about all kinds of fetishes like [NSFW]latex[/NSFW], [NSFW]pee[/NSFW] and [NSFW]crap[/NSFW] fetishes, but ass? You're kidding right? I think you should see a doctor.


Now I hope you understood, that it was just sarcasm. I bet almost every straight man has the ass fetish. Don't act like you're having some kind of special relationship with asses, that keeps you from recovering.

Just don't look down there. And if you look, then look away as fast as possible.

 

Tell me about it... PMO'ing kind of took the edge off my horniness so to speak, and now that I'm PMO free, I catch my eyes wandering down and to areas on a women's body they shouldn't be. It is what it is though.

Try and keep your eyes clean and noble (at least that's what I'm trying to do). It's super hard. It will set you apart from every other guy if you can do it that's for sure.

 

Try not to think of a pink elephant with purple spots. Just for one minute, don't think of a pink elephant with purple spots. I repeat, do not think of a pink elephant with purple spots. What is the one image in your mind this moment?

Pushing against anything is a surefire way of making it grow into a monster. If you keep trying to vanquish your ass fetish, it will grow, because it is the other, it is a great enemy that you must conquer, and you are putting a lot of energy into the conquering. If you try not to focus on asses, guess what you're going to focus on.

I'd say do this. If you are in a low state, where asses are simply leaping into your mind willy nilly, do the following. Let them. Don't resist them, but don't follow them. Do an ass meditation. Here's how:
1. Take one minute to do a full body scan. In other words, direct your attention only for a second to the soles of your feet, then your ankles, then your knees, then your thighs, your loins, your stomach, chest, hands and arms, shoulders, throat, chin, cheeks, eyes, brow, forehead, and then the top of your head. At this point you have grounded your attention in your body.
2. Simply sit inside your body, redirecting your attention to different parts of your body, according to what appears comfortable. Your mind will conjure up images of asses. Let the images come. Don't resist any image. Simply allow it to come as it pleases. Don't contribute to it either. Just let it be.
3. Redirect your attention to your body, the moment you realize your mind is consumed with the ass of the moment. The core skill is simply this. Redirect your attention back to any portion of your body (other than your loins, for obvious reasons), the moment you recognize that you are thinking about asses.

This will give you freedom from a compulsive focus on asses very soon. Trust the process, and simply play with it a few times today. Tell me what happens.

 

I'm very atracted by asses... man, it's really hard to me don't look at them. I'll try this meditation process too.

Thanks anthrope!

 

Best of luck trying it out Claudio. Let me know how it turns out. Cheers!

 

well - a pink elephant with purple spots. this is hypnosis at its best!

 

I think that fetish comes by default with every guy. We all admire asses,they are pretty, an it's more of an instinct (to look at women's ass), BUT...as with every other thing in the world, excess is bad, so moderate it.

 

You're very welcome, Namekian. I hope it works for you.

Haha Monkotto - that it is.

I hear you Graham - I wonder about this myself. I guess mental fixation on anything is possible. The fact that the glutes are a major muscle and so prominently out there makes them hard to ignore and resist. I agree - moderation is the key.

 

We all look at asses, it's fun, it inspires. Looking at asses didn't make me a porn addict nor viceversa. BUT...sometimes it's better to take a rest from them so we don't get crazy. I started looking at them before I started watching porn/masturbating, and now that I'm quiting PMO, I still enjoy some asses walking by, of course I remember that I'm on porn rehab so, I try to avoid thinking hardcore stuff, I just look at them, I say to myself "nice ass" and thats it...life goes on.