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quitting for good

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by mutti28, Apr 30, 2018.

  1. mutti28

    mutti28 New Fapstronaut

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    i vow to myself that i WILL stop watching porn and not ever masturbate again, for the sake of my success, because it effects my life goals and wastes my time, i am going to make this change for my own betterment, to become a better person. today is 30 april 2018. i am going to 19 in 2 and a half months. ive started my day counter. wish me luck guys :)
     
  2. byeoldfriend

    byeoldfriend Fapstronaut

    Hi @mutti28. I wish you success!

    Don't miss the Getting Started guide, it will help you a lot.

    You are in the right place. Welcome!
     
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  3. Welcome. Glad you are here.

    Like @byeoldfriend mentioned, take some time to read the reboot material and come up with a plan for what you will do when you are faced with urges. It has good advice, so don't skip it! :)

    Perhaps start writing a journal - if you feel comfortable telling people about happened and what's going on now, you will start to feel accountable to them. You may even inspire others. It's a nice feeling! This will help your recovery.

    Also, try to add something into your life that makes you the kind of person who doesn't engage in PMO. Think about doing:
    Something you enjoy
    Something you're good at
    Something important
    Something for somebody else, without thought of reward (and if you DO get an unintended reward, do something ELSE, perhaps for a different person or group).

    Read the journals of others - we all learn from each other. For example, I received the above good advice from a far more experienced member of the community who shared his knowledge. Don't just stay within your own age group or part of the world. Share your knowledge in a respectful way.
    This is a great post about what lies ahead of you during the reboot. https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/time-to-be-done-with-this.140257/page-26#post-1442099

    This is a fantastic way to explain what you'll be feeling during your reboot.
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/club-dopamine.101129/

    Read, learn, apply.

    Look around the forums, get to know people. Everyone is friendly, and will try to support you. We're all in the same boat here. :)

    Be kind to others and others will be kind to you, both here and IRL.

    I wish you a successful reboot.
     
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