Im a Phony

I just realized that ive been faking, pretending to reboot. Ive been going through the motions, but i never really try to fight off urges. I usually give in to the first one whether it comes on day 2 or day twelve. This isnt a "poor me, ive giving up now", its actually the oposite. Now that i realize how phony ive been, im ready to drive through the urges and take this whole thing more seriously. Im ashamed of myself and its time to take back my life. Im building a new approach and a plan to succeed, let the healing commence.

 

I also found this post to be very inspiring - written by @Unhooked.
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/time-to-be-done-with-this.140257/page-26#post-1442099

Have a read and see how you feel afterwards.

 

Thanks so much for that video man, its very inspirational. I literally never cry and my eyes welled up when he talked because everything he said pertained to me so much. In his words, its time to stop being a b__ch and do this thing.

 

Thanks, thats an awesome post. Very very helpful.

 

Thanks man, i appreciate the support. Yeah, it sort of hit me like a brick when i realized id barely been trying, but this time im going all the way.

 

I remember reading what Swami Vivekananda said along the lines of 'Don't see it in terms of failure and success, rather see it as going from a lower level of truth to a higher one'. The experience itself is the teacher. You know, failure can be seen as a blessing in disguise sometimes. Now you're going to 'kick ass' and beat this addiction! And you're not a phony by sharing your honesty. The real phonies are the ones who relapse without resetting their day-counter and even pretend to be saints as it reaches 200, 300, 400...

 

Thanks a lot, i will take that advice to heart.

 

Thank you for the encouragement and support. I do intend to beat this once and for all. Good luck on your own journey.

 

Hey again, just wondering if you know that guys name so i can find some more videos. Thanks

 

Thanks man. I appreciate it.

 

Im doing okay, thanks for asking. I feel confident and ready. I havent had any real urges yet but im prepared to face them when i do.

 

Have a try of Allen Carr's EasyWay method (linked in my sig). No willpower required.

After you follow the process you realise that there is nothing to give up. Fapping isn't something you want to do.

Naturally there are dots to connect along the way, but that's the gist. Forget "trying" to give up. Arrive at a place where you're just shown the escape hatch. No reason not to take it, and away you go.

 

Thanks man, ill check it out.