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Staring?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by forthebetter1, May 11, 2018.

  1. forthebetter1

    forthebetter1 Fapstronaut

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    This could probably go in any forum, but I thought here makes sense. I’m trying to quit my habit of “staring”, looking at women that I find attractive. I know it makes women uncomfortable, but it’s a hard habit to break. I’ve been pmo free for a week and it’s easy to get distracted by someone you find attractive. Anyone else have this problem and what do you do to combat it? I find myself staring into space or at my phone, but that doesn’t seem the best solution either.
     
  2. p3rs0nal

    p3rs0nal Fapstronaut

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    I know what you mean. First, it is not completely bad. It's a typical reaction from our brain to observe woman we find attractive. I did that sometimes too but it is easy to avoid it. You need to get your mind occupied. So you could use a good book for example. In my case i mostly just use my phone to browse specific topics that interest me.
     
  3. I've been doing no PM for quite some time and I recently "started" that "habit" too. I can't quite tell when it began but I noticed that once the temperatures outside got higher, the amount of triggers also did. I think my mind sees this as a replacement for PM, which is why "staring" at girls is quite addictive too. It gives that novelty that our brains usually got from P, just in real life I guess. I'm having a hard time fighting this actually so I'd be interested if anyone could share some piece of advise.
     

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