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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Draw.the.Line, May 13, 2018.

  1. Draw.the.Line

    Draw.the.Line Fapstronaut

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    I'm 37 and have been masturbating almost daily since before puberty. When porn became easily accessible, it only exacerbated the issue. I PMO mostly to alleviate stress, anxiety, and depression. As someone who has always suffered from low self-esteem, it is comforting but at the same time invokes guilt and frustration. I'm shy with very little dating and sexual experience. In reality, the only thing PMO helped me with was keeping me exactly where I am.

    I started Monday because all bold new endeavors start on a Monday. So far I've been successful. I've removed the thought that this is something that can be delayed. As such, I have stopped smoking pot. Well, at least when I'm alone. When I'm high and by myself, PMO is guaranteed. Additionally, I told a couple of my close friends. It was scary as I opened myself up to ridicule. They think I'm crazy but I don't care. It keeps me accountable. And here I am posting on NoFap. I have almost zero online presence. But reading the various threads on this forum, this seems like a safe place to share.

    I really want to get this handled. I completed the Whole30 and it changed my life. I lost 40 pounds and am no longer a victim to food cravings. And, unlike all the other diets I have ever been on, I have been able to keep the weight off. I'm hoping to see something similar doing the 90 day hard mode. If abstinence will help with my low self-esteem, then the struggle will be worth it. And this will most certainly be a struggle. It's been almost a week and the urges are getting more intense.

    I wish everyone the best with their personal journeys. Thanks for reading.

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  2. Haien

    Haien Fapstronaut

    Welcome and congrats on losing 40lbs! I'm just getting started myself, but looks to be a very supportive community.
     
  3. Draw.the.Line

    Draw.the.Line Fapstronaut

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    Thanks Haien. Welcome to you as well. We can do this!
     
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